
Gender Arsenal is all about the uncalled for Gender War which has been initiated and is being fuelled by reasons outside the purview of this article. Gender Arsenal pertains to the weapons available to both the genders in the war. Before going into the actual details about the arsenal, I will elucidate the positions of the two genders vis-à-vis each other.
National Commission for Women (NCW) came into effect in 1992 in India to work on women’s issues. NCW has been instrumental in making awareness about a lot of problems faced by women, and has recommended various legal and social options to redress them. It also looks into complaints received by women. Additionally women have around 3300 odd NGOs working for them, one union ministry and Rs. 1200 crores allocated for their cause annually from the union budget.
Men have none.
I will now proceed to list down some laws meant specifically for women,
1. Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC): This section is formulated for married women who face physical and mental harassment from husband and in-laws and the cruelty is made for any unreasonable ‘demand’ (mostly dowry) from the woman and the cruelty is of such nature that it drives the woman to commit suicide or can be a danger to the life and limb of the woman.
2. Section 354 of the IPC: Assault or criminal force to woman with intent to outrage her modesty.
3. Section 509 of the IPC: Word, gesture or act intended to insult the modesty of a woman.
4. Section 375 and 376 of the IPC: Rape of a woman.
5. Section 498 of the IPC: Enticing or taking away or detaining with criminal intent a married woman
6. Section 98 of the Criminal Procedure Code (CrPC): Power to compel restoration of abducted females.
7. Section 125 of the CrPC: Meant to provide no-fault maintenance to wife from husband.
8. Section 24 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 (HMA): Though gender neutral, is largely used by women to extract maintenance from their husbands in pendency of a divorce.
9. Section 25 of the HMA: Meant to provide alimony to women from divorce.
10. Section 18 of the Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act: Another provision for maintenance to wives.
11. Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961: Though gender neutral in its definition, this Act is largely used to protect women and there are also some judgments for cases filed under this Act, which are gender biased towards women.
12. Immortal Trafficking Prevention Act: Deals with trafficking of women.
13. Indecent Representation of Women Act: Title is self-explanatory.
14. Medical Termination of Pregnancy Act: Empowers women to abort their unborn children legally.
15. Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act: Meant to tackle Domestic Violence faced by women.
These are some of the laws and Acts made to protect and empower women true to the best of my knowledge; I might have missed a few of them. However, these are only illustrative and not exhaustive of the fact that women are not only over-protected but pampered in this so called Male Dominated Society, whereas men do not have even a single NGO funded by the Govt. to be fighting for men’s cause let alone any law, section, Act or a commission or a ministry.
It should give a fairly clear idea as to how unequally men and women are placed in this gender war wherein actually men are dragged into uncalled for. On one hand, where women have weapons to the tune of Surface to air missiles to their kitty as their arsenal, men do not even have a Rampuri Chaku at their disposal.
And, as I said, the list is merely illustrative and not exhaustive; NCW has in its offing more laws to castrate men, some of them being,
1. Proposal for compensation of Rs. 2 Lakhs to rape victims.
2. Sexual Harassment Bill.
3. Workplace Harassment Bill.
4. Law to protect maids and so on and so forth.
Again the list of prospective laws is also true to the best of my knowledge and I might have missed many others in the offing.
Whilst there are neither any laws existing to protect men, nor in the offing, and the simple reason for this is, men do not fight for their right or stand up for other men who are fighting for men’s rights.
And if things continue this way, the day won’t be far when NCW will come up with a law like this one:
Inherent Protection of a Woman’s Dream Act: Any woman, who complains against a man that the man entered her dreams and molested her/outraged her modesty/raped her, shall be tried with a relevant section of the IPC. Any married woman who complains against her husband and in-laws that they entered her dreams and demanded dowry from her or harassed her and assaulted her for not bringing enough dowry shall be charged with IPC Section 498A/Dowry Prohibition Act/Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act etc.
Choice lies with men; they can allow more and more such laws to be passed by not supporting men’s rights or take a stand against all such laws and pressurize the Government to rethink about the laws.
Women face discrimination that's why these laws have been formed.
The single line in your story "Men have none" shows that you are suffering from sense of insecurity and you relate this fear with discrimination against men just to get rid of this fear.
1. Proposal for compensation of Rs. 2 Lakhs to rape victims.
Men not being allowed to rape for free is a castration?
Men do have their share of problems. Why are no laws meant to protect them?
Why only laws to protect women ? And that too laws which have lower level of evidence? Consider testimony as evidence?
The moment the man pays the ’Compensation’, criminal cases are withdrawn.
Why?
Why special status to women ? Are they above men?
Men are raped, face domestic violence, not given access to their children, commit more suicides (way higher than women due to lack of communication channels) and yet there is no protection offered to them?
Assumptions and biases work against men.
See these two news item, how the media projects men,
http://tr.im/qPZJ
http://tr.im/qQ09
The crux is that she was from a well-to-do family and so could not take the newly fallen poverty life. So killed her kids and self.
The contrast is right below in a Small news post about a poor husband, who could not take his wife’s cruelty any more and committed suicide in just 2 months of marriage. And he has been projected as a suspicious husband.
So the motto of the stories is ...
When a husband dies due to wife’s cruelty, it’s the husband’s fault as he was suspicious...
But when a Wife kills her kids and self, It’s the husband’s fault as he was poor.
The sword of false allegations always lies on men.
In societies, men and women, both have problems, but there are laws only for women’s problems to the extent of castrating men, why?
Media always projects men as criminals, why?
The counter argument (a standard one) that it is a man’s world, has been debunked here,
http://wemen.us/articles/views/26-indian-men-an-epitome-of-sacrifices.html
http://wemen.us/articles/views/246-and-they-call-it-a-mans-world.html
We are trained to believe that men are criminals and thus we view them like this.
Its all about thoughts and attitudes.
The moment there is a complaint against a man, everyone crucifies the man in a pre-trial punishment and a media trial.
Why is the man not given a fair chance to prove his innocence.
If laws could protect then there would have been no crime at all.
And that is why inspite of 82% of taxes being paid by men in India,
Suicide rates are on the rise especially amongst married / separated men due to the undue sentimental balance of the courts towards women which is being used to advantage by criminal minded women. In three years (2005 – 2007) 1, 65,528 married men have committed suicide as opposed to 88,121 married women as per suicide statistics by National Crime Records Bureau.
In the last 11 years (1996 – 2007) 1, 56,000 husbands have committed suicide directly due to Domestic Violence. Suicide rate for married men have gone up by 6 times as compared to that for married women in 2007 as compared to 2006. Family problem is numero uno killer for men and women alike contributing 27.75% to the suicides in 2007 and 29.8% in 2006.
Indian Husbands End thier life:’It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man’ ?
“She and her parents asked me to furnish Rs 10 lakh as early as possible. But at that time, I was not in a position to produce the sum. Since I was attached to my son, they prevented me from meeting my son. My wife then made false allegations against me and filed a complaint in the police station under section 498 A. The police without trying to ascertain the truth took me away to the police station. On that day, I died literally. Ever since then I was dying day in and day out for two reasons. One, I was kept away from my son and two; I was harassed by my wife. I was suffering both mentally and physically. It became routine for me to beg for my son. But no one understood me. Finally, I fell at her feet and begged to see my son. But to no avail. I then approached the courts. But they quite simply dragged the case. Everything was mechanical there.” - this may be one of a Indian Husband’s own confession before end his life had been recorded in his own mobile , the unanswered questions .
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No. this Video will never be a Breaking News in India as it is from a Man and that also from a Husband!!!
The Husband Killers will move freely in the Society they way more than 56000 husband killers/year are moving freely in this country and every day the same are increasing.
Where as we all can witness the Breaking News in Indian Television as Ms. Fizza tried Suicide or any Women suicide in Mumbai Five Star Hotel also and media trial convert all the cases as Dowry death or Dowry Harassment case without Single evidence, except the Verbal allegations.
Not only on the one hand, the judges/media/society/LAW makers sympathize about only a small verbal allegation ”violence against women”, make cooked up study reports , on the other hand women’s organizations earned a huge money by making each and every ”Domestic Dispute” to a Violence or dowry death story and fooled the Judges/media/LAW makers in the very temple of justice itself, but every year more than 56000 married man ending their life , which is 10 times more than terrorist killed in this country , but no one feels the same should be make a concern for this country.
Seems killing the Husbands to be termed as Social Service in this country and creating a Father less child society is the only solution to reduce all the violence and crime in the society.
In this country a person have right to meet his child even after convicted in Terrorist law, murder law, rape law, but a Husbands do not have any right to meet his child, if his wife do not agree and all the Judges do not forget to treat them as Free ATM machine in the name of child maintenance, but miserably failed to ensure the husband at least get some visiting right of child.
That is the Great LAW of this country and our Judges and LAW makers along with maximum Media Houses believe, Indian wives are ’abala nari” and all born in Raja Harish Chandra Family (never lie) and all the Husbands born in Criminal family.
1. Do you know who had given the whole sale free licensees to your wife to refuse to visit your own child once in a week at least? – Congress.
2. Do you know who had given whole sale free License to your wife to beat, abuse, refuse food to your child and you can’t even ask her a single question, as it will be termed as verbal abuse? – Congress.
3. Do you know if your wife demand 1000 rupees for her kitty party and you give 800, it is a crime by you as per law and who made such law? – Congress.
We asked to all Law makers and even honorable Judges of Supreme court , who one hand they describe the misuse of LAW as ”Unleashing of Legal Terrorism” and government should take the necessary step to stop that , but they themselves silently enjoy the suffering of Indian Husbands and failed to make any corrective action or asked a small question to the LAW makers, why more and more duplication of LAW made in this country and violated the Indian Constitutions article 14, 21 and misused the special provision of article 15 by all Political party, specially congress in the name of Caste, religion, weaker sex , women etc but forget everyone is equal in front of law and a person is innocent till proven guilty, but it does not apply when a wife complain against Husband , the moment a wife will complain, the husband to be treated as Free ATM machine, let the allegations is false or true.
Honorable Supreme court of India along with all LAW makers , still not able to answer : Is the Pain of a Mother or Sister is less or Nil , when they lose their son or brother?
If not then why a wife should not be punished, when the evidence are beyond reasonable doubt the husband end his life due to harassment by wife?
We wonder Whose life is in More Danger in India: Men or Women?
1. Crime Bureau data 2005: Married Men Suicide : 52k vs Married Women Suicide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?
2. 2006 Crime Bureau Data: Married Men Suicide: 55452 vs. Married Women Suicide:29869.
3. 2007 Crime Bureau Data : Married Men Suicide: 57593 vs. Married Women Suicide:30064.
Will Our LAW Maker change the LAW 304B (dowry death) to 304C (Sowry Death) and 498A (harassment to wife) to 498B (Sowry harassment by wife)?
In case when a wife end his life, irrespective of any reason , the husband and all his mother/sisters put behind the bar immediately , but when a Husband end their life, inspite of having the evidence , no one cares or media also do not find the same as news , forget about any Breaking News. We even witness the husbands and all his family members send behind the bar , even when the wife’s family falsely claimed the wife is dead, where as the truth is the wife is alive and happily enjoying her life with another man, see this video.
Whereas , we have witness in this country , a women sleep with her boyfriend in Mumbai five star Hotel (few month back a Air Hostage women’s suicide case) and the moment she suicide , all the News Channel claim the wife had been killed (where as the husband stay in Delhi) and it is to be termed as Dowry Death... wonder , where every suicide of a wife had converted to Dowry death and made more and more laws (as on date more than 6 laws to harass and treat the husbands family as Free ATM machine available in this country).
It is evident, more than 90% Indian Husband totally ignorant about the danger they are in and relax, till the time they hit by those dangerous weapon of Legal Terrorism in the form of one sided law like 498a/DV Act/Crpc125/child custody/adultery/maintenance.
This is called the present Justice system in India and equal right in India, made by congress Government.
For a wife even adultery also is not a crime (it is a rewarding option and free money earning business for the whole life), but for a man even an allegation of “Name-calling” is crime and not only the man, his mother/sister/age-old father also can be put behind the bar under 498A or DV act.
From the court record it is evident, maximum wives who are well educated, working and healthy to earn themselves rush to the court and want money from the husband, but do not forget to file another criminal case (like 498A DV act), mentioning that their husband ill-treat them for money, but they themselves openly demanding money as a legal extortion and blackmailing in front of Police/Media/Court and that is not a crime in India. Further to note, if a wife earns the money and husband due to some any reason not able to earn the money, even if he is ill or any other condition, he is not eligible for any maintenance from the working women, irrespective he had earned lacks of rupees and given to his wife earlier.
So the question arises: Is Indian Husband is a Free ATM Machine for Indian wives?
As per Congress Government the answer is: Yes, result make more and more duplications of LAW and policy , by violating the basic principal of Justice System and forget every person is equal in front of LAW and a person is innocent till he/she proven to be guilty.
We had repeatedly requested and given all the examples suffering of Indian husbands and demanded all Gender Biased LAW should immediately to be made crime based instead of any assumption that all women never lie and all the men born as Criminal. ”MEN/WOMEN” word to be replaced by word ”PER SON” and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word ”SPOUSE”.
But it all goes in deaf ears of Congress Government.
So, dear Indian Husbands and their family members , you have a great option in your hand , vote for congress and ensure more and more suffering of Indian Husbands , as they all born in criminal family and all Husband killers to be awarded by ” Bharat Ratna: , as not only congress all other political party also should consider increasing the suffering of Husbands and their family members termed in this country as Social service and Indian Husbands and their family members can’t ensure their defeat or reduce their vote share, so make more and more anti-husband, anti-family, anti-child and anti-men biased and lopsided law in this country.
History witness , a Terrorist activity can’t give any freedom to any one, it kills only innocent , the same is evidence in India also , in the name of Protection to wife/women or reduce the Domestic violence against women, our LAW Makers made more and more duplications of law, killed the basic foundation of Criminal Justice System and ”Unlash open Legal Terrorism”, which only kills the innocent and the real objective and freedom still far away and can never be achieved and cry will be continue, Indian women are suffering and need more and more anti-men, anti-family and anti-child law and some are under way in the name of Sexual Harassment law, Child abuse law, every where the basic principal will be do the extortion of money/property from a man and the same will not be termed as crime, as all the women born in this country in Raja Harish Chandra Family ( Never Lie)!!!!!!!!
’It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man’?
Indian Husbands End their life: (Click for Video live evidence of a Indian Husband ).
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/553-men-are-prisoners-of-their-own-minds.html
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/552-men-the-invisibly-abandoned-diaspora.html
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/544-men-are-marvelous.html
and
Women are Wonderful
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/496-women-are-wonderful.html
But does anyone punishes those bitches?
No.
Media Pampers them as LIBERATED VICTIMS and there are internet pamperers like you who jump into every thread just to show that you are there with your hollow arguments.
Can you show some statistics of women being tortured?
You can’t because women torture is a myth propagated by media to castrate men and extort them with false cases.
98% of dowry harassment cases are false.
FYI, the dowry law holds the accused GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT and the accused have to prove their innocence against the entire state machinery and lodging a dowry case is as easy as ordering a pizza.
Yet 98% of people have proved their innocence while the rest 2% could not prove their innocence otherwise 100% cases are false.
If you are not aware of ground and practical realities then better shut your mouth up rather than uttering bullshit and falling flat on face.
Why are all cases lodged as an after thought? Only because the man refuses to be treated as FREE ATM MACHINE.
Media has created a perception so that no man dare say anything against a woman whereas women abuse men openly in public and other eunuch men look on.
All this a conspiracy against men and as a result men are disappearing
See this
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/552-men-the-invisibly-abandoned-diaspora.html
Clearly shows your mental level.
Feminazis like you cannot make out the difference between facts and exaggeration. Nor can femiterrorists make out the need for balanced reporting which the media never does. We have only stories of men assaulting women. Crimes committed by women are pushed under the carpet as the business of women’s rights is at stake! Female victimhood is the product that is sold through such news stories. And lastly, men have paid with their lives to protect and provide women while women always enjoyed the comfort of the homes! Its slavery of men! And femiterrorists like you are adding insult to injury!
”And you blind Nuya, I am Virag and not RohanD, look before committing visible blunders”—————————-
The problem with femiterrorists is that they think there is only supporter of men’s rights. LOL
That shows that women can insult men. So we need to amend laws that discriminate men and make them gender neutral so that mem are also protected from insult and what not that women indulge in. Women can commit the same crimes as men. So protect men from such women. Amend the laws.
How many women were murdered by men in that same time? over 300,000! The women did not choose to be murdered, those men CHOOSE to kill themselves.
Or else I will sue you for spreading false information.
You have no data to back your claim and you are just spreading male hatred you male hater feminist dumbo.
By your own argument, if the Men CHOOSE to end their own lives, then the women should not be blamed! Accepted...
In that case, WHY do you Blame Men when those half the number of Women CHOOSE to end their Own Lives?
Oh and btw, your figure of 3Lakhs is entirely baseless... Do you have any source for those figures, other than your day-dreams?
How many men were murdered - either by women directly or indirectly giving supari? BTW, suicide rate of men is always much much higher than women. Men face enormous stress when compared to women.
Rohan,
Have a laugh man, she thinks you and me are same.
Poor confused woman, go get the company of some man who can explain things to you.
Now stop fooling around with people and get real.
Each time one makes a fake ID to spread hatred or stupid ideas (like yours), God punishes him/her by taking away 20% of his/her sanity.
You better stop this before you lose the final 20%.
Come on mate! Be brave. ROHANDEEE, Vraaag, Pisson.. it’s too much.
Now stop this.
The current situation of the so called Men’s World is only because of ’Sane’ ppl like you...
To make it right now, the world needs some insane and jerks like us...
Thanks for the compliments, in advance...
How does he find time for all of that?
It is good for instablogs I guess, makes them look like they have more readership than they actually do.
Every reply of this Nuya makes me laugh. LOL
Sometimes, they are so ridiculous that I wonder why I am wasting my time with a feminazi joker!
I understand your position and my sympathises for your background.....you don’t need to get so desperate and please women in today’s times! Get real and be a man!
SUCH A WASTE OF PRECIOUS BLOG SPACE!
PLEASE STOP THIS!!
AND CLICK & FOLLOW THE LINKS GIVEN BELOW. REST ASSURED, ONE OF THE LINK CARRIES THE SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.
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If online links would have solved the problems of India, then probably the Indian govt. would be the best govt. in the world, since Internet has come to India...
I also pity ppl like you, as we’re fighting for Men’s rights, while being opposed by coward and sex starved Men like you...
Do you know of a single Woman who’d oppose of anyone fighting for Women’s rights? Ofcourse, none.
So its quite obvious that fighting for women’s rights is quite EASY in today’s world.... And only Women, and eunuchs like you would want to be in that flow.
Real Men tend to swim in the counter-current and Take the Real challenge of fighting for the rights, even for the Men who oppose us like this!
All the Best to you... We’ll welcome you to the club, the day you also get the fire in ur A** lit up by the Women you’re so keen to sleep with!
N’joy your nights while you can...
And I appreciate your courage for accepting the fact that you people are happy putting your beliefs on myth and trying to give a tough time to reality.
However, I pity you more now because you are already devoid of any sanity.
Don’t worry... you are a ’real man’... keep swimming in the opposite direction... while us ’eunuchs’ will continue to live as God made us to live - i.e., to give respect to the fairer sex and spend our lives happily with wives and kids and mothers and sisters and concentrate on more important issues.
You all can carry on with your agenda of spreading hatred and get your asses kicked in the process.
All the best to you and to all ’real men’ like you, who are so terrified to be in harmony with the women that you show your back and start swimming in the ’wrong’ direction.
My prayers are alays with you.
You know, your comment can’t offend me... because I have great sympathy for gay people.
Don’t worry, while I enjoy my nights with beautiful girls... you all (Rohandee, Vraaag, Pisson and yourself) can indulge in gay orgies and count yourself the lucky ones. Now interpret the situation and see who is ’real man’ and who all are ’eunuchs’
Have a good day!!
P.S. I love the grit you all show while saving your mate’s ass, the way you responded to my comments to ROHANDEE and Vraag. Maybe that’s because you consider it as a trophy to bang for the lifetime.
Note: I have a friend in Bangalore, called Jaiyant. Get in touch with him whenever you make up your mind to say goodbye to the gay society and join the mainstream.
Note 2: You clearly seem to be suffering from ’heterophobia’. Click the Link 5 and see if you can do something to change your sick mind.
”We’re are all mainstream men, who enjoy a nice night with your wife or sister too... Wanna test us?”—————————
This guy named Aneez Ibrahim (Dawood Ibrahim’s brother is also called Aneez, is living in the medieval world of chivalry and protection of women! Don’t hurt this poor medieval guy from a well-known background with such a statement. He is not able to digest men fighting for their rights and how can he digest the thought of we guys fuck*** about his wife and sisters?
WHY?
So that eunuchs like you can sleep around with girls.
Its because of men like you that, men are suffering. You choose to support a woman over a man and men have been cornered to such an extent that they are committing suicides in double the numbers than women.
You cannot stop me. The day you get victimized by a woman and come to me, I will still help you.
I never expected you to stop, that was a joke I played on your head to entertain the females here.
Keep blabbering!
Visit
www.saveindianfamily.org to know the ground reality.
And my fight for men’s rights is going to intensify after this because the awareness created so far seems inadequate.
What bullshit?
Its the straight trees that are cut first. And jerks and criminals rule us because sane people like you chose to sit in a cozy A/C cabin and care a shit about what’s going on in the society?
Have you ever seen a dog committing suicide? NO
But human beings, the so called sane ones commit suicide. They end their lives as they cannot live in the world created by themselves.
And sane people like you want to talk only about women’s rights, and never about men’s rights because talking about women’s rights is politically correct.
We hear lot about crimes committed against women but that’s des not make the associations,organizations and institutions objects of mockery.How come talk about crimes against men is being ridiculed?
We all believe that changes are fast taking place in our society.The behavior of women has changed a lot and there are many criminal cases that show direct involvement of women in heinous crimes.Crimes committed by women belonging to affluent sections of society is now no big news.
Against this backdrop what’s wrong if people like Rohan D, Virag, Myth,Rajesh and etc. or,for that matter, organizations and associations defending the cause of men have come in existence? What’s so wrong in it? Isn’t a reality that women are going to any extent to frame men in wrong cases? It’s a harsh reality that’s bothering Courts a lot.Why such a hue and cry over the rights of men ?
Newton’s Third Law Of Motion states that ”to every action there is always opposed an equal reaction”.There was bound to be an uprising among the men community the way negative forces taking the help of borrowed ideology have wrecked the very tenets of Indian society.
Today you might ridicule them as they are lesser in number and also because they are moving against the current but it’s crystal clear that in near future it would be very difficult for women to live with so-called liberated values or distorted theories spread by the feminists.
Gandhi was thrown out of the train’s compartment and ridiculed in South Africa for championing the cause of suffering minority class there but what happened after that is known to all of us. In other words, let the whole world laugh at these few men for advocating the cause of men but I am sure it’s bound to end the drama taking place in the name of feminism.
It’s one thing to take note of the plight of women but it’s a different thing to create upheaval in society in name of honouring rights of women.
Anyway, I am really frustrated because a clash between opposite sexes also means end of intimacy between them.It’s virtually the death of exchange of intimate emotions between them.That’s bound to take place because individualism has left little scope for sweet togetherness.When you love rights over duties then be sure you are murdering possibilities of all beautiful relationship.
Do you know the story of the boy who cried wolf? He got the reputation of being a liar.
Every time that you and the others say that women had it so good before the women’s movement, every time you say that women have never done any work, every time you say that females weren’t just a disposable commodity, every time you say that men were a free ATM paying women to do nothing.... the whole world knows that is a lie..... so how do you expect anyone to believe anything you say after that?
Start with the realities of the situation...
The reality is that for centuries Indians were conditioned to believe that females are just property to be used or disposed of.
For women there was never any love, there was never any beautiful relationship there was never any intimate emotions there was only duty for thousands of years. How do you expect them to know what love is? How do you expect them to know what trust is? It was conditioned out of them.
They were conditioned to know that no one could be trusted to look out for their best interest. They learned to take what they could get out of any situation. They learned that they had to do what ever they could to survive.
That is what they are doing now, using any means by hook or by crook to keep from being returned to slavery and degradation.
When you and others like you demean their struggle and advocate the return of their former subjugated state, it is just proof that men can still not be trusted. They will fight all the harder, and become all the more devious to keep from being returned to the shackles.
In the beginning, men were laughing at the women just like Gandhi was laughed at, but you know how that turned out.
”Do you know the story of the boy who cried wolf? He got the reputation of being a liar.”———————-
Its you feminazis who are crying wolf in your aim at destroying gender harmony. I can provide you enough evidence to prove that men are the oppressed gender. The govt. records on suicides shows that too.
”Every time that you and the others say that women had it so good before the women’s movement, every time you say that women have never done any work, every time you say that females weren’t just a disposable commodity, every time you say that men were a free ATM paying women to do nothing.... the whole world knows that is a lie..... so how do you expect anyone to believe anything you say after that?”———————————
Don’t get so desperate and defeat your own cause. Don’t distort what Arvind has said. He never said that women didn’t have any issues or that women were enjoying. All he says, if I am right, is that you cannot oppress men and discriminate them in the garb of empowering women! You cannot treat men as free ATM machines. Women need to start paying the price of equality!
”Start with the realities of the situation...The reality is that for centuries Indians were conditioned to believe that females are just property to be used or disposed of.”——————
The other side of reality needs to be projected. Feminazis like you want to hide it so that women can dominate men. For centuries, men have protected and provided women at their own cost! 94% of all deaths are of men in the course of duty and wars. Women were given the privilege of sitting at home and enjoying the safety while men struggled to bring home food. MEN ARE STILL CONDITIONED TO BELIEVE THAT WOMEN NEED TO BE PROTECTED AT THEIR OWN COST. ITS HIGH TIME TO LIBERATE MEN FROM TRADITION.
”When you and others like you demean their struggle and advocate the return of their former subjugated state, it is just proof that men can still not be trusted. They will fight all the harder, and become all the more devious to keep from being returned to the shackles.”—————
The struggle is based on one-sided concepts, exaggerated and misandrist. Its not a fair struggle for fair and reasonable rights and duties. Its a struggle for unreasonable rights and with no duties. Its a struggle for destruction of men, families and society. Hatred of men is not just demeaning but should be condemned. The real subjugated gender are the men who had to pay with their lives to protect and provide women, while women enjoyed the comfort of the home, caring the children and doing lighter jobs. Strangely, it is the same ”untrust-worthy” men who are relied upon by women when they need protection. Its the same ”Untrust-worthy” men whose money is looted by women on the pretext of divorce. Shame! Shame!
”In the beginning, men were laughing at the women just like Gandhi was laughed at, but you know how that turned out.”————————
Men would eventually have the last laugh! I pity you!
Like I said, you constantly lie about women, so everything else you ever say will be a lie too. Women have already paid the price for thousands of years, now they are collecting.
Every misogynistic country in the world thought they could return women to slavery once the revolt started too. None have managed so far, what makes you think India will be any different?
The response given by you is indicative of the fact that you are just interested in twisting and distorting the replies of others to bring it at par with dirt residing in your brain. Why are you not interested in listening to the arguments of others with a conscious minds other than giving wrong colour to the replies of others ?
Do you think you are having some sort of monopoly over ”real facts” that makes you dismiss the findings of others with such impunity ?
I am not interested in offering arguments to quash the falsehood and baseless allegations made in your response. However, I do wish to kill your cherished view that you love to repeat whenever you meet me.
”The reality is that for centuries Indians were conditioned to believe that females are just property to be used or disposed of.
For women there was never any love, there was never any beautiful relationship there was never any intimate emotions there was only duty for thousands of years. How do you expect them to know what love is? How do you expect them to know what trust is? It was conditioned out of them.
They were conditioned to know that no one could be trusted to look out for their best interest. They learned to take what they could get out of any situation. They learned that they had to do what ever they could to survive.”
I know very well that it’s not going to kill your bonhomie with ignorance.I just saw an image posted by on some other post that highlighted a temple.In other words,I am taking you back in ancient times via excerpts that tell about the position of Indian society in ancient era.I will be more than happy if it allows you to be in league with some real truth other than your favourite ”so-called truths”.
Yes there was degradation in their stature in later times but then there were reforms too initiated by the men community .But that’s an altogether different story.
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The Ancient Indian Women
In ancient times Aryans were the main inhabitant of India. These people
were mainly Brahmins and they used to give the status of goddess to the women. At that time women enjoyed no less than status of Lakshmi (goddess of wealth) in the households. A famous Sanskrit shloka (form of Hindu verse) signifies the status of women in that era, ”Yatra naryastu pujyante, ramante tatra devta” meaning, “The
place where women are worshipped, god themselves inhabit that place”. The
women of ancient times had immense power this is evident from a South Indian legend that once a king accidentally killed the husband of a women and she had such powers that she burnt the whole kingdom to ashes. Women in that time had place even superior to men. They had representation in each arena from assemblies to religious rituals. In fact no religious ritual of Hindu Brahmins was supposed to be
complete without the presence of the women. An incident of Ramayana is a proof of this as when Lord Rama was performing Ashvamedha yajna his wife Sita was not with him and he had to use the gold idol of his wife to compensate for her absence. Ancient Indian women had say in each and every aspect related to theirlives. They had the right to choose their own life partners. The process of choosing
the life partner of own choice was known as Swayamvar in which grooms assembled at the house of bride and she used to choose the one whom she liked. Maharishi Ved Vyas’ Mahabharata and Mahrishi Valmiki’s Ramayana bear testimonial to this. In Ma-
habharata, Draupadi’s father arranged for her Swanyamvar and Arjuna (a Pandavamarry her.
Even the model women of Tretayuga, (second out of four ages of Hindu
mythology) Sita also had Swanyamva in which kings of different states participated and Lord Rama won her over by breaking the Shiv Dhanusha (Hindu God Shiva’s bow).Not only just princely women but the common women were also given the same rights. Women were so important that many of the major battles were fought for them. The fiercest battle of ancient India Mahabharata was fought for the honor
of Draupadi (wife of Pandavas, ruler of Indraprastha). The Kauravas (ruler of
Hastinapur) insulted her in the court and this led to the enmity between cousins and resulted in the most devastating battle of ancient India.
Another example of women power is evident from the cause of death of
most learned man of his time Ravana. He was the best scholar of his time and was the master of all the four Vedas of Hindu religion and had immense powers. Even gods were not able to defeat and kill him but a woman was able to bring his doom. Ravana
captured Sita and tried to mart her forcibly which led to his destruction.
Women were not just confined to domestic arena but they were also part of religious teachings. In ancient India woman like Gayatri, Maitreyi, Anusuya were re-nowned seers of their time this shows that women had the right to religious
teachings.They were not prohibited even from learning. They could learn whatever they wanted.
Vedas, the most adored Hindu scripture, give respectable position to women. Rig Veda allows share in property to the daughter who resides for ever withher parents (2-17-6). It gives right to girls to choose their life partners or husband (10-27-12). A hymn of Atharva Veda says:May women be united with handsome husbands. They should never be widows and never be in tears. May they be very prosperous and rich! May theywear pretty garments and beautiful ornaments and may they wish to take rebirth in human yoni (form) to maintain perpetuity of humanity.. A husband is supposed to request and praise her wife and get her voluntary consent if he wishes to have sexual union with her.
From ”The History Of Indian Women:Hinduism At Crossroads With Gender” by Babita And Sanjay Tewari
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”He never said that women didn’t have any issues or that women were enjoying. All he says, if I am right, is that you cannot oppress men and discriminate them in the garb of empowering women!”
..You got it right my friend.I just want to know is it wrong to talk about rights of men when day and all the source of information are harping about rights of women even in petty matters like smoking a cigarette? Why people representing the cause of men are seen in wrong light by females and their organizations ?
12 How many a maid is pleasing to the suitor who fain would marry for her splendid riches?
If the girl be both good and fair of feature, she finds, herself, a friend among the people.
That is rather skimpy in the rights department, who decides if she is both good and fair? Does it only apply to rich women?
”you have 2 or 3 years worth of your so called proofs, the women have thousands of years worth, you have been trumped!”————————————-
The thousands of years is a feminist story. Its trumped up, exaggerated and one-sided. Men have woken up a little late but they will fix it soon!
”Like I said, you constantly lie about women, so everything else you ever say will be a lie too. Women have already paid the price for thousands of years, now they are collecting.”————————-
I cannot lie to you that women are above human weaknesses. I cannot lie to you that men protected and provided women laying down their lives while women enjoyed the comfort of their homes. I cannot lie that more than 1.3 lakh women have been arrested without investigation under IPC 498A alone in the last 5 years!
”Every misogynistic country in the world thought they could return women to slavery once the revolt started too. None have managed so far, what makes you think India will be any different?”—————————
Women were never slaves of men; on the contrary, men were protecting women at their own cost. Women and human species is alive today simply because of that; otherwise it would have been extinct. The crap that feminists have been spreading is about the ”Slavery” but men have always been the slaves of women!
”Why people representing the cause of men are seen in wrong light by females and their organizations ?”————————
Obviously, they don’t want truth to come out and want everybody to believe feminist crap of 1000s of years of discrimination of women. The truth is that men were as much if not more discriminated. Men were never sympathised and hence nobody is sensitive towards men’s issues.
Let me tell you that ancient India had a higher place for women (This was wrong and I don’t agree though). The women misused the powers and men were subjugated. So, later vedic period saw disempowerment of women. We are in a similar situation today. Women are over-empowered and men are yet to realise it. Once they do, you would see men disempowering women.
You can prove that some men are cowards and take the easy way out leaving others to clean up their messes? Men have had it too easy, if they had been the slaves then they would have toughened up and been able to endure more misery like women do.
All religions are the same because the first thing men want to own and control is women, they want that before food, clothes, power or money. That has always been men’s number 1 aim to enslave women, they could beat them with their fists to control their bodies but they could never control their minds or their will to survive. As far as men were concerned, woman was the 1 animal they could not break, could not tame.
The real reason women live longer than men is thousands of years of abuse left only the strongest ones to reach adulthood. Ancient man hunted 2 or 3 times a week, then dicked around being waited on hand and foot the rest of the week. Women worked in homes and fields everyday, cooking, washing, cleaning, gathering wood, fetching water, tending to livestock and babies all day long. Read some history once-in-awhile! And not just Myths of things that never happened.
”You can prove that some men are cowards and take the easy way out leaving others to clean up their messes? Men have had it too easy, if they had been the slaves then they would have toughened up and been able to endure more misery like women do.”——————————————-
If men were cowards, women wouldn’t have survived the onslaught of nature. Feminist scums like you want to portray a different history than what is the real truth. Even 100 years back, the comfort level was negligible when compared to today and people today cannot believe how life was then. Then, we can imagine how the situation was 2000 years ago was. Polygamy came about when there was a severe onslaught of nature and men were in great shortage. Islam also propagates polygamy because of this reason. Unfortunately, these rules weren’t changed with time. This, the feminists have twisted to suit their agenda of bashing up men. IN A WAY YES, MEN ARE COWARDS BEFORE WOMEN. THEY SHOULD HAVE MADE THE WOMEN FIGHT NATURE AND PROTECT AND PROVIDE MEN, WHILE THE MEN TENDED TO KIDS, COOKING, HOUSEHOLD WORK, WHICH IS COMPARITELY VERY LIGHT.
Yes, men have it very easy and that’s why 94% of all deaths in wars, calamities, work are of men and not women! Men have it too easy and hence they are driven to extreme situations that make them commit suicide, unable to tolerate the nagging of their women who think it is their right to torture men. Now who is the real slave?
”All religions are the same because the first thing men want to own and control is women, they want that before food, clothes, power or money. That has always been men’s number 1 aim to enslave women, they could beat them with their fists to control their bodies but they could never control their minds or their will to survive. As far as men were concerned, woman was the 1 animal they could not break, could not tame.”——————————————–
Straight from some feminist literature - it has no no substance and is plain crap. The holy books were written at a very different time when circumstances were unimaginably different - no technology, no cars, no taps to bring water, no electricity, no phones, very less population, infectious diseases around, and threat of nature was the real challenge to human species. Whatever was written then were the best in those circumstances! There was probably no other way for human survival except women being at home and men hunting and bringing food. Earliest humans had men being hunters and women gatherers. Now this has been exaggerated and misinterpreted by feminazis to suit their agendas. THE MEN ARE THE REAL FOOLS TO HAVE MADE THE WOMEN SIT AT HOME WHILE THEY DID THE MORE DIFFICULT JOB AT THE COST OF THEIR OWN LIVES! ITS NOW GIVEN THE FEMINAZIS AN OPPORTUNITY TO BASH UP MEN.
”The real reason women live longer than men is thousands of years of abuse left only the strongest ones to reach adulthood.”—————————–
Thats straight from feminist theory books on evolution. Don’t pollute this forum with such feminist crap. The real reasons why women live longer than men is because men are the disposable gender. 94% of deaths due to work, wars, rescue operations are of men and not women! That’s nothing to do with your theory. The Mumbai terror strikes saw 100% deaths of men and women were watching from the sidelines. What has that got to do with your so-called 1000s of years of abuse? Infact, its the other way. Men have been abused for 1000s of years and they have reached their limits. Infact, there is the theory of male genes becoming extinct as a result of this wearing out due to excessive work and tension. NOW WOMEN NEED TO PAYBACK MEN! START TAKING OUR TENSIONS AND STRESS.
”Ancient man hunted 2 or 3 times a week, then dicked around being waited on hand and foot the rest of the week.”————————————
The ancient man didn’t have AK-47 rifles nor did he have machines. You feminist would not be able to till one acre of dry field even in 6 months. And you thought hunting wild animals 2-3 times in a week without any machines was so easy. Obviously, the women were happy to serve the men who were physically exhausted!
”Women worked in homes and fields everyday, cooking, washing, cleaning, gathering wood, fetching water, tending to livestock and babies all day long. Read some history once-in-awhile! And not just Myths of things that never happened.”—————————
I am not going to read feminist history for sure. You are mixing up the hunter-nomad man with the settled farmer. If women were working in the field, that means, the men were also working in the same field. The men did more difficult jobs while the women were plucking the fruits and harvesting. DON’T MIX UP THE HUNTERMAN WITH THE SETTLED FARMER. The more difficult jobs have always been done by men. BTW, Cattle rearing is very difficult at times - washing cattle etc. Women would hardly do that.
There is a whole lot of talk of public women, courtesans, prostitutes etc. It instructs women how to get money out of men. It instructs men how to go about committing adultery with his neighbors wives.
....WHEN Kama is practised by men of the four castes according to the rules of the Holy Writ (i.e. by lawful marriage) with virgins of their own caste, it then becomes a means of acquiring lawful progeny and good fame, and it is not also opposed to the customs of the world. On the contrary the practice of Kama with women of the higher castes, and with those previously enjoyed by others, even though they be of the same caste, is prohibited. But the practice of Kama with women of the lower castes, with women excommunicated from their own caste, with public women, and with women twice married, 1 is neither enjoined nor prohibited. The object of practising Kama with such women is pleasure only.........
Nayikas, 2 therefore, are of three kinds, viz. maids, women twice married, and public women. Gonikaputra has expressed an opinion that there is a fourth kind of Nayika, viz. a woman who is resorted to on some special occasion even though she be previously married to another. These special occasions are when a man thinks thus:
This woman is self-willed, and has been previously enjoyed by many others besides myself. I may, therefore, safely resort to her as to a public woman though she belongs to a higher caste than mine, and, in so doing, I shall not be violating the ordinances of Dharma.
Or thus:
This is a twice-married woman and has been enjoyed by others before me; there is, therefore, no objection to my resorting to her.
Or thus:
This woman has gained the heart of her great and powerful husband, and exercises a mastery over him, who is a friend of my enemy; if, therefore, she becomes united with me she will cause her husband to abandon my enemy.
Or thus:
This woman will turn the mind of her husband, who is very powerful, in my favour, he being at present disaffected towards me, and intent on doing me some harm.
Or thus:
By making this woman my friend I shall gain the object of some friend of mine, or shall be able to effect the ruin of some enemy, or shall accomplish some other difficult purpose.
Or thus:
By being united with this woman, I shall kill her husband, and so obtain his vast riches which I covet.
Or thus:
The union of this woman with me is not attended with any danger, and will bring me wealth, of which, on account of my poverty and inability to support myself, I am very much in need. I shall therefore obtain her vast riches in this way without any difficulty.
Or thus:
This woman loves me ardently, and knows all my weak points; if therefore, I am unwilling to be united with her, she will make my faults public, and thus tarnish my character and reputation. Or she will bring some gross accusation against me, of which it may be hard to clear myself, and I shall be ruined. Or perhaps she will detach from me her husband who is powerful, and yet under her control, and will unite him to my enemy, or will herself join the latter.
Or thus:
The husband of this woman has violated the chastity of my wives, I shall therefore return that injury by seducing his wives.
Or thus:
By the help of this woman I shall kill an enemy of the king, who has taken shelter with her, and whom I am ordered by the king to destroy.
Or thus:
The woman whom I love is under the control of this woman. I shall, through the influence of the latter, be able to get at the former.
Or thus:
This woman will bring to me a maid, who possesses wealth and beauty, but who is hard to get at, and under the control of another.
Or lastly thus:
My enemy is a friend of this woman’s husband, I shall therefore cause her to join him, and will thus create an enmity between her husband and him.
For these and similar other reasons the wives of other men may be resorted to, but it must be distinctly understood that is only allowed for special reasons, and not for mere carnal desire.
WHEN a girl of the same caste, and a virgin, is married in accordance with the precepts of Holy Writ, the results of such a union are the acquisition of Dharma and Artha, offspring, affinity, increase of friends, and untarnished love. For this reason a man should fix his affections upon a girl who is of good family, whose parents are alive, and who is three years or more younger than himself. She should be born of a highly respectable family, possessed of wealth, well connected, and with many relations and friends. She should also be beautiful, of a good disposition, with lucky marks on her body, and with good hair, nails, teeth, ears, eyes and breasts, neither more nor less than they ought to be, and no one of them entirely wanting, and not troubled with a sickly body. The man should, of course, also possess these qualities himself. But at all events, says Ghotakamukha, a girl who has been already joined with others (i.e. no longer a maiden) should never be loved, for it would be reproachable to do such a thing.
from the laws of Manu....
213. It is the nature of women to seduce men in this (world); for that reason the wise are never unguarded in (the company of) females.
214. For women are able to lead astray in (this) world not only a fool, but even a learned man, and (to make) him a slave of desire and anger.
4. Having bathed, with the permission of his teacher, and performed according to the rule the Samavartana (the rite on returning home), a twice-born man shall marry a wife of equal caste who is endowed with auspicious (bodily) marks.
5. A damsel who is neither a Sapinda on the mother’s side, nor belongs to the same family on the father’s side, is recommended to twice-born men for wedlock and conjugal union.
6. In connecting himself with a wife, let him carefully avoid the ten following families, be they ever so great, or rich in kine, horses, sheep, grain, or (other) property,
7. (Viz.) one which neglects the sacred rites, one in which no male children (are born), one in which the Veda is not studied, one (the members of) which have thick hair on the body, those which are subject to hemorrhoids, phthisis, weakness of digestion, epilepsy, or white or black leprosy.
8. Let him not marry a maiden (with) reddish (hair), nor one who has a redundant member, nor one who is sickly, nor one either with no hair (on the body) or too much, nor one who is garrulous or has red (eyes),
9. Nor one named after a constellation, a tree, or a river, nor one bearing the name of a low caste, or of a mountain, nor one named after a bird, a snake, or a slave, nor one whose name inspires terror.
10. Let him wed a female free from bodily defects, who has an agreeable name, the (graceful) gait of a Hamsa or of an elephant, a moderate (quantity of) hair on the body and on the head, small teeth, and soft limbs.
11. But a prudent man should not marry (a maiden) who has no brother, nor one whose father is not known, through fear lest (in the former case she be made) an appointed daughter (and in the latter) lest (he should commit) sin.
12. For the first marriage of twice-born men (wives) of equal caste are recommended; but for those who through desire proceed (to marry again) the following females, (chosen) according to the (direct) order (of the castes), are most approved.
27. The gift of a daughter, after decking her (with costly garments) and honouring (her by presents of jewels), to a man learned in the Veda and of good conduct, whom (the father) himself invites, is called the Brahma rite.
28. The gift of a daughter who has been decked with ornaments, to a priest who duly officiates at a sacrifice, during the course of its performance, they call the Daiva rite.
29. When (the father) gives away his daughter according to the rule, after receiving from the bridegroom, for (the fulfilment of) the sacred law, a cow and a bull or two pairs, that is named the Arsha rite.
30. The gift of a daughter (by her father) after he has addressed (the couple) with the text, ’May both of you perform together your duties,’ and has shown honour (to the bridegroom), is called in the Smriti the Pragapatya rite.
The Gita....
There is nothing else that is more sinful than women. Verily, women are the root of all faults. That is certainly known to thee, O Narada! Women, even when possessed of husbands having fame and wealth, of handsome features and completely obedient to them, are prepared to disregard them if they get the opportunity.
The Mahabharata
Anusasana Parva, Section XX
Translated by sri Kisari Mohan Ganguli
Sage Ashtavakra said:
Women can never be their own mistresses. This is the opinion of the Creator himself, viz., that a woman never deserves to be independent. There is not a single woman in the three worlds that deserves to be regarded as the mistress of her own self. The father protects her while she is a maiden. The husband protects her while she is in youth. Sons protect her when she is aged. Women can never be independent as long as they live.
Does any of that sound like women were anything other than property to be used? Does any of that sound like love as you know it?
I have read through a good bit of the mythology and religion in the last few months. I haven’t seen any of the parts where women are discussed have anything nice to say about women. I am not saying that there is nothing nice... as you know it would take a lifetime to read it all, I am just saying that I haven’t been able to find anything good.
So far I have only found where it says over and over that women are evil and wicked and cannot be trusted. It instructs men to choose women for their money or their beauty, never for love.
Add that to the reports of the condition of females today and you get a clear picture of reality... it is nothing like that myth you have been laboring under.
The Early vedic period gave excessive rights to women over men. Women misused it and men were subjugated. Society plunged into moral chaos. The codes of Manu came about at a time when society was morally chaotic. I agree with manusmriti when it says that women have the tendency to seduce men. I have experienced it myself. I have seen other men experiencing it too. With regard to the Gita, you have taken it out of context. Unless one understands the context and real meaning, it would be unfair to comment on it. All I can say is that these are spiritual texts and the comment is more about the spiritual body and not the actual body. DO NOT PULL OUT THREADS FROM THE SCRIPTURES OUT OF CONTEXT. UNLESS ONE READS AND UNDERSTANDS THE ENTIRE STUFF, THE BACKGROUND, IT WOULD BE UNFAIR TO COME TO ANY CONCLUSION.
”Does any of that sound like women were anything other than property to be used? Does any of that sound like love as you know it?”————————-
How can that imply that women were property of men? It simply means that men had the obligation to protect and provide women. It simply means that physical strength was more essential in those days to earn one’s bread and men alone could do that.
There was NO>>>ZREO>>>ZIP>>>>ZILCH>>>> none not one mention of any protecting or providing done by men...it says very plainly that women had to look out for themselves because men would use them for revenge sex. It tells men to look for rich women and beautiful women only because they are just objects! Only male children count! Property to be given as gifts!!!!
READ IT AGAIN!
And I dare you to find more than a footnote good about females in all those hundreds of thousands of pages because from what I have seen it was all vile and dehumanizing.
”none not one mention of any protecting or providing done by men...it says very plainly that women had to look out for themselves because men would use them for revenge sex. It tells men to look for rich women and beautiful women only because they are just objects! Only male children count! Property to be given as gifts!!!!”——————————————————————
The ancient world followed religious values. If religions didn’t expect men to protect and provide women, the human species would have come to an end. Such was the danger from nature. In Hinduism, a woman is not expected to go anywhere alone. She is expected to go with a man or atleast a boy. What does that imply? It simply means that men are supposed to protect women! Similarly, whatever was written in the holy books were very scientific and relevant for those circumstances. To take out portions of that and show them as being discriminatory to women is unfair and irrational. Unless one reads the entire text and the context and circumstances, one cannot conclude that they discriminated women. Definately not as we have seen the present world where men are still following tradition and protecting and providing women.
”READ IT AGAIN!
And I dare you to find more than a footnote good about females in all those hundreds of thousands of pages because from what I have seen it was all vile and dehumanizing.”————–
You have seen only those that feminists want to. Go through the entire texts and the circumstances when they were made. Then you will know. BTW, I DARE YOU TO SHOW ME HOW ATHEISM AND FEMINISM HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS TO THE PROBLEMS OF HUMAN BEINGS. I DARE YOU TO SHOW ME HOW YOUR STUPID FEMINISM IS NOT AN ANTI-MALE INSTITUTION. Feminism cannot claim a moral high ground over Talibanism as they both have extreme ideologies.
Did you ever read any of those Hindu texts? Like the Kamasutra, The Gita, the Veda?
....I would like to ask you have you read them? I am sure you have not read them.
As far as I am concerned I have read Gita and other Hindu scriptures quite well if not the other two that well.Not boasting.Okay.Just answering your question.
And here comes the request:Why a refined lady like you is so hell bent on turning herself into a laughing stock by ”selective quoting” of verses which I am sure you are not even quite aware of properly,forget about its true purport.
If you are good in certain stream,it does not automatically gives you the power to comment on each and every aspect with certainty.Why are you not aware of your limitations?
So please don’t quote in such a way.It does not show that you are aware of the realities.It only shows that how far you are from the truth.
The sweeping statements on basis of such selective study is quite a wrong way.Rohan is right when he says that unless”one reads and understands the entire stuff” in light of the ”background” one is bound to move away from the essence of the scriptures.
Just highlighting one example.
You have quoted a certain verse from Gita.Let me tell you that this verse does not exist in Gita at all.The Gita is a dialogue between Krishna and Arjuna.There is no verse in it addressed to Narada !
Even if I assume that the whole conversation belongs to Ashtavakra Samhita or Ashatvakara Gita occurring in a different parva(not in the one quoted by you) of Mahabharata then also this verse is not there as the whole conversation is between Janaka And Ashtavakra.
There is one more Gita -Udhhava Gita.But that appears in Srimad Bhagavatam -a Purana-and that’s dialogue between Krishna and Udhhava.
Why are you so cocksure about the validity of your arguments based on such superficial study.Even if I assume that one cannot read voluminous literature of other religion in detail, why are you not interested in hearing the better version of the same selective verses or for that matter the real essence of that scripture ?
That will prevent you from treating one’s version as the only ”proof” and will also prevent you from dismissing the views of others as rubbish.
You knew when you started reading that I said I had not read all of the hundreds of thousands of pages, so why are even bringing it up?
The reason for pulling a few representative quotes is to show you where I got my information from. You keep saying that women are so revered yet I cannot find any evidence of what you claim.
It is not proof but it is evidence. I have read all of the texts to a few other religions and they are just as biased against women. More evidence that women everywhere have been mistreated throughout history and only because we were smaller and weaker and made easy prey.
If women had had the physical strength of men, there would have been harmony because women took complete care of themselves and their children for all the months and years that men were away fighting wars so no one was protecting them or providing for them for large amounts of time. Men knew women did not need them, that is why they made laws to keep them from getting any property. It was all about control and when women worked together and started asserting their will, men made up new religions to control them.
I thought you wanted to know WHY the women are behaving as they are now and I was just trying to explain it to you.
Unless you understand why a thing is broke, you can never hope to fix it.
I know Rohand doesn’t care WHY he just wants to throw temper tantrums until he gets his way. I don’t why I bother to answer him except that I don’t want him to think I am ignoring him.
”You knew when you started reading that I said I had not read all of the hundreds of thousands of pages, so why are even bringing it up?”
I raised it to show that such selective study serves no purpose other than creating wrong impressions.Well, a little knowledge is always dangerous.Interestingly,you dismiss the findings from same sources as ”myth” and ”false” but selective verses quoted by you from the same sources become ”evidence” for you.When you quote it’s ”evidence” but when others quote it’s ”false”.
I thing the greatest blunder committed by you is that you always look at the views from your premeditated brain.You have become a conditioned mind that cannot look beyond it’s limited understanding.The ideal way to gain a perfect understanding is to keep our minds always open to new thoughts and views.
As far as you are concerned, you are not ready to drop the baggage of previous thoughts from your mind.
I am too bothered about improving the situations of females but then I cannot ignore the wrong trend patters among the females.Modern females are just like a car moving fast without brakes in it.
I am too highly conscious of problems faced by the females and interested in seeing their rise but that does not mean I should ignore their distorted behaviour.Ironically,the wrong trend patterns are spreading fast in women and in fact replicating faster than AIDS virus in African subcontinent.
What the use of such progressive men and women if the institutions like marriage and family become a thing of past?
If awareness has led to conflicts, court cases and all sorts of other problems then one needs to think over the usefulness of progressive thoughts !!It appears that primitive class lived a better life than our so-called progressive guys and gals always in conflict with each other.
”You knew when you started reading that I said I had not read all of the hundreds of thousands of pages, so why are even bringing it up?”————————————–
When you are saying that, how can you conclude? How can you base your assumptions on half-knowledge?
”The reason for pulling a few representative quotes is to show you where I got my information from. You keep saying that women are so revered yet I cannot find any evidence of what you claim.”————-
You have got the information from some feminist literature where such references are made. Those books are obviously designed to spread hatred and mislead society.
”It is not proof but it is evidence. I have read all of the texts to a few other religions and they are just as biased against women. More evidence that women everywhere have been mistreated throughout history and only because we were smaller and weaker and made easy prey.”——————————-
So you call it evidence eh? Evidence based on half-truth and half knowledge. If religions were against women, women would have been protecting and providing men for ages. Society would have collapsed long ago.
”If women had had the physical strength of men, there would have been harmony because women took complete care of themselves and their children for all the months and years that men were away fighting wars so no one was protecting them or providing for them for large amounts of time.”——————————————–
I WISH MEN WERE PHYSICALLY WEAKER THAN WOMEN! THAT WOULD MAKE MEN TAKE OVER LIGHTER ROLES AND WOMEN WOULD NOT GET THE UNDESERVING SYMPATHY THAT THEY ARE GETTING. Men would be women and they would be called the weaker sex, would be getting to control women the way women are controlling men and yet calling the world ”Male dominating society”.
Secondly, your statement is full of contradictions. You are saying that women were not being protected or provided when men were fighting wars. WHO WERE THE MEN FIGHTING WARS FOR? IS THAT NOT PROTECTION? And provision? There was enough for everybody those days unlike today when progressive methods of farming has diminished yield.
”Men knew women did not need them, that is why they made laws to keep them from getting any property.”————————————-
Women don’t need men? Try doing that. Don’t be kidding. No woman can live without a man. Man also needs woman. Your theory of feminism is nothing but hatred of men. No wonder, most of the feminists are lesbians.
”It was all about control and when women worked together and started asserting their will, men made up new religions to control them.”——————————
Control? Yes, thats why 94% of all deaths are of men and not women! So much for controlling women.
Women have started working primarily after the industrial revolution. Even today, they hardly work in labour oriented jobs. Some jobs such as mining, foot soldiering etc are unknown to women. Women have taken the advantage of technology and are claiming superiority and independence over men, forgetting the fact that for thousands of years, it is the men who sweated and toiled to bring home food, often sacrifising their lives. Women have always asserted their will on men and controlled men. Or else, we would have women protecting and providing men in ancient times.
Local Opinions (56)
Why do you call all these laws as gender arsenal? These are meant for protecting for women. Don't you think so?
Women face discrimination that's why these laws have been formed.
The single line in your story "Men have none" shows that you are suffering from sense of insecurity and you relate this fear with discrimination against men just to get rid of this fear.
Men do have their share of problems. Why are no laws meant to protect them?
Why only laws to protect women ? And that too laws which have lower level of evidence? Consider testimony as evidence?
The moment the man pays the ’Compensation’, criminal cases are withdrawn.
Why?
Why special status to women ? Are they above men?
Men are raped, face domestic violence, not given access to their children, commit more suicides (way higher than women due to lack of communication channels) and yet there is no protection offered to them?
Assumptions and biases work against men.
See these two news item, how the media projects men,
http://tr.im/qPZJ
http://tr.im/qQ09
The crux is that she was from a well-to-do family and so could not take the newly fallen poverty life. So killed her kids and self.
The contrast is right below in a Small news post about a poor husband, who could not take his wife’s cruelty any more and committed suicide in just 2 months of marriage. And he has been projected as a suspicious husband.
So the motto of the stories is ...
When a husband dies due to wife’s cruelty, it’s the husband’s fault as he was suspicious...
But when a Wife kills her kids and self, It’s the husband’s fault as he was poor.
The sword of false allegations always lies on men.
In societies, men and women, both have problems, but there are laws only for women’s problems to the extent of castrating men, why?
Media always projects men as criminals, why?
The counter argument (a standard one) that it is a man’s world, has been debunked here,
http://wemen.us/articles/views/26-indian-men-an-epitome-of-sacrifices.html
http://wemen.us/articles/views/246-and-they-call-it-a-mans-world.html
We are trained to believe that men are criminals and thus we view them like this.
Its all about thoughts and attitudes.
The moment there is a complaint against a man, everyone crucifies the man in a pre-trial punishment and a media trial.
Why is the man not given a fair chance to prove his innocence.
If laws could protect then there would have been no crime at all.
And that is why inspite of 82% of taxes being paid by men in India,
Suicide rates are on the rise especially amongst married / separated men due to the undue sentimental balance of the courts towards women which is being used to advantage by criminal minded women. In three years (2005 – 2007) 1, 65,528 married men have committed suicide as opposed to 88,121 married women as per suicide statistics by National Crime Records Bureau.
In the last 11 years (1996 – 2007) 1, 56,000 husbands have committed suicide directly due to Domestic Violence. Suicide rate for married men have gone up by 6 times as compared to that for married women in 2007 as compared to 2006. Family problem is numero uno killer for men and women alike contributing 27.75% to the suicides in 2007 and 29.8% in 2006.
Indian Husbands End thier life:’It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man’ ?
“She and her parents asked me to furnish Rs 10 lakh as early as possible. But at that time, I was not in a position to produce the sum. Since I was attached to my son, they prevented me from meeting my son. My wife then made false allegations against me and filed a complaint in the police station under section 498 A. The police without trying to ascertain the truth took me away to the police station. On that day, I died literally. Ever since then I was dying day in and day out for two reasons. One, I was kept away from my son and two; I was harassed by my wife. I was suffering both mentally and physically. It became routine for me to beg for my son. But no one understood me. Finally, I fell at her feet and begged to see my son. But to no avail. I then approached the courts. But they quite simply dragged the case. Everything was mechanical there.” - this may be one of a Indian Husband’s own confession before end his life had been recorded in his own mobile , the unanswered questions .
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No. this Video will never be a Breaking News in India as it is from a Man and that also from a Husband!!!
The Husband Killers will move freely in the Society they way more than 56000 husband killers/year are moving freely in this country and every day the same are increasing.
Where as we all can witness the Breaking News in Indian Television as Ms. Fizza tried Suicide or any Women suicide in Mumbai Five Star Hotel also and media trial convert all the cases as Dowry death or Dowry Harassment case without Single evidence, except the Verbal allegations.
Not only on the one hand, the judges/media/society/LAW makers sympathize about only a small verbal allegation ”violence against women”, make cooked up study reports , on the other hand women’s organizations earned a huge money by making each and every ”Domestic Dispute” to a Violence or dowry death story and fooled the Judges/media/LAW makers in the very temple of justice itself, but every year more than 56000 married man ending their life , which is 10 times more than terrorist killed in this country , but no one feels the same should be make a concern for this country.
Seems killing the Husbands to be termed as Social Service in this country and creating a Father less child society is the only solution to reduce all the violence and crime in the society.
In this country a person have right to meet his child even after convicted in Terrorist law, murder law, rape law, but a Husbands do not have any right to meet his child, if his wife do not agree and all the Judges do not forget to treat them as Free ATM machine in the name of child maintenance, but miserably failed to ensure the husband at least get some visiting right of child.
That is the Great LAW of this country and our Judges and LAW makers along with maximum Media Houses believe, Indian wives are ’abala nari” and all born in Raja Harish Chandra Family (never lie) and all the Husbands born in Criminal family.
1. Do you know who had given the whole sale free licensees to your wife to refuse to visit your own child once in a week at least? – Congress.
2. Do you know who had given whole sale free License to your wife to beat, abuse, refuse food to your child and you can’t even ask her a single question, as it will be termed as verbal abuse? – Congress.
3. Do you know if your wife demand 1000 rupees for her kitty party and you give 800, it is a crime by you as per law and who made such law? – Congress.
We asked to all Law makers and even honorable Judges of Supreme court , who one hand they describe the misuse of LAW as ”Unleashing of Legal Terrorism” and government should take the necessary step to stop that , but they themselves silently enjoy the suffering of Indian Husbands and failed to make any corrective action or asked a small question to the LAW makers, why more and more duplication of LAW made in this country and violated the Indian Constitutions article 14, 21 and misused the special provision of article 15 by all Political party, specially congress in the name of Caste, religion, weaker sex , women etc but forget everyone is equal in front of law and a person is innocent till proven guilty, but it does not apply when a wife complain against Husband , the moment a wife will complain, the husband to be treated as Free ATM machine, let the allegations is false or true.
Honorable Supreme court of India along with all LAW makers , still not able to answer : Is the Pain of a Mother or Sister is less or Nil , when they lose their son or brother?
If not then why a wife should not be punished, when the evidence are beyond reasonable doubt the husband end his life due to harassment by wife?
We wonder Whose life is in More Danger in India: Men or Women?
1. Crime Bureau data 2005: Married Men Suicide : 52k vs Married Women Suicide 28K.Still there is no LAW to Protect Men why?
2. 2006 Crime Bureau Data: Married Men Suicide: 55452 vs. Married Women Suicide:29869.
3. 2007 Crime Bureau Data : Married Men Suicide: 57593 vs. Married Women Suicide:30064.
Will Our LAW Maker change the LAW 304B (dowry death) to 304C (Sowry Death) and 498A (harassment to wife) to 498B (Sowry harassment by wife)?
In case when a wife end his life, irrespective of any reason , the husband and all his mother/sisters put behind the bar immediately , but when a Husband end their life, inspite of having the evidence , no one cares or media also do not find the same as news , forget about any Breaking News. We even witness the husbands and all his family members send behind the bar , even when the wife’s family falsely claimed the wife is dead, where as the truth is the wife is alive and happily enjoying her life with another man, see this video.
Whereas , we have witness in this country , a women sleep with her boyfriend in Mumbai five star Hotel (few month back a Air Hostage women’s suicide case) and the moment she suicide , all the News Channel claim the wife had been killed (where as the husband stay in Delhi) and it is to be termed as Dowry Death... wonder , where every suicide of a wife had converted to Dowry death and made more and more laws (as on date more than 6 laws to harass and treat the husbands family as Free ATM machine available in this country).
It is evident, more than 90% Indian Husband totally ignorant about the danger they are in and relax, till the time they hit by those dangerous weapon of Legal Terrorism in the form of one sided law like 498a/DV Act/Crpc125/child custody/adultery/maintenance.
This is called the present Justice system in India and equal right in India, made by congress Government.
For a wife even adultery also is not a crime (it is a rewarding option and free money earning business for the whole life), but for a man even an allegation of “Name-calling” is crime and not only the man, his mother/sister/age-old father also can be put behind the bar under 498A or DV act.
From the court record it is evident, maximum wives who are well educated, working and healthy to earn themselves rush to the court and want money from the husband, but do not forget to file another criminal case (like 498A DV act), mentioning that their husband ill-treat them for money, but they themselves openly demanding money as a legal extortion and blackmailing in front of Police/Media/Court and that is not a crime in India. Further to note, if a wife earns the money and husband due to some any reason not able to earn the money, even if he is ill or any other condition, he is not eligible for any maintenance from the working women, irrespective he had earned lacks of rupees and given to his wife earlier.
So the question arises: Is Indian Husband is a Free ATM Machine for Indian wives?
As per Congress Government the answer is: Yes, result make more and more duplications of LAW and policy , by violating the basic principal of Justice System and forget every person is equal in front of LAW and a person is innocent till he/she proven to be guilty.
We had repeatedly requested and given all the examples suffering of Indian husbands and demanded all Gender Biased LAW should immediately to be made crime based instead of any assumption that all women never lie and all the men born as Criminal. ”MEN/WOMEN” word to be replaced by word ”PER SON” and word wife/husband to be replaced with the word ”SPOUSE”.
But it all goes in deaf ears of Congress Government.
So, dear Indian Husbands and their family members , you have a great option in your hand , vote for congress and ensure more and more suffering of Indian Husbands , as they all born in criminal family and all Husband killers to be awarded by ” Bharat Ratna: , as not only congress all other political party also should consider increasing the suffering of Husbands and their family members termed in this country as Social service and Indian Husbands and their family members can’t ensure their defeat or reduce their vote share, so make more and more anti-husband, anti-family, anti-child and anti-men biased and lopsided law in this country.
History witness , a Terrorist activity can’t give any freedom to any one, it kills only innocent , the same is evidence in India also , in the name of Protection to wife/women or reduce the Domestic violence against women, our LAW Makers made more and more duplications of law, killed the basic foundation of Criminal Justice System and ”Unlash open Legal Terrorism”, which only kills the innocent and the real objective and freedom still far away and can never be achieved and cry will be continue, Indian women are suffering and need more and more anti-men, anti-family and anti-child law and some are under way in the name of Sexual Harassment law, Child abuse law, every where the basic principal will be do the extortion of money/property from a man and the same will not be termed as crime, as all the women born in this country in Raja Harish Chandra Family ( Never Lie)!!!!!!!!
’It Was A Crime That I Was Born As Man’?
Indian Husbands End their life: (Click for Video live evidence of a Indian Husband ).
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/553-men-are-prisoners-of-their-own-minds.html
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/552-men-the-invisibly-abandoned-diaspora.html
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/544-men-are-marvelous.html
and
Women are Wonderful
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/496-women-are-wonderful.html
But does anyone punishes those bitches?
No.
Media Pampers them as LIBERATED VICTIMS and there are internet pamperers like you who jump into every thread just to show that you are there with your hollow arguments.
Can you show some statistics of women being tortured?
You can’t because women torture is a myth propagated by media to castrate men and extort them with false cases.
98% of dowry harassment cases are false.
FYI, the dowry law holds the accused GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT and the accused have to prove their innocence against the entire state machinery and lodging a dowry case is as easy as ordering a pizza.
Yet 98% of people have proved their innocence while the rest 2% could not prove their innocence otherwise 100% cases are false.
If you are not aware of ground and practical realities then better shut your mouth up rather than uttering bullshit and falling flat on face.
Why are all cases lodged as an after thought? Only because the man refuses to be treated as FREE ATM MACHINE.
Media has created a perception so that no man dare say anything against a woman whereas women abuse men openly in public and other eunuch men look on.
All this a conspiracy against men and as a result men are disappearing
See this
http://wemen.us/articles/an-article-a-day/552-men-the-invisibly-abandoned-diaspora.html
Clearly shows your mental level.
Or else I will sue you for spreading false information.
You have no data to back your claim and you are just spreading male hatred you male hater feminist dumbo.
Rohan,
Have a laugh man, she thinks you and me are same.
Poor confused woman, go get the company of some man who can explain things to you.
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PLEASE STOP THIS!!
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Now stop fooling around with people and get real.
Each time one makes a fake ID to spread hatred or stupid ideas (like yours), God punishes him/her by taking away 20% of his/her sanity.
You better stop this before you lose the final 20%.
Come on mate! Be brave. ROHANDEEE, Vraaag, Pisson.. it’s too much.
Now stop this.
WHY?
So that eunuchs like you can sleep around with girls.
Its because of men like you that, men are suffering. You choose to support a woman over a man and men have been cornered to such an extent that they are committing suicides in double the numbers than women.
You cannot stop me. The day you get victimized by a woman and come to me, I will still help you.
Visit
www.saveindianfamily.org to know the ground reality.
And my fight for men’s rights is going to intensify after this because the awareness created so far seems inadequate.
If online links would have solved the problems of India, then probably the Indian govt. would be the best govt. in the world, since Internet has come to India...
I also pity ppl like you, as we’re fighting for Men’s rights, while being opposed by coward and sex starved Men like you...
Do you know of a single Woman who’d oppose of anyone fighting for Women’s rights? Ofcourse, none.
So its quite obvious that fighting for women’s rights is quite EASY in today’s world.... And only Women, and eunuchs like you would want to be in that flow.
Real Men tend to swim in the counter-current and Take the Real challenge of fighting for the rights, even for the Men who oppose us like this!
All the Best to you... We’ll welcome you to the club, the day you also get the fire in ur A** lit up by the Women you’re so keen to sleep with!
N’joy your nights while you can...
The current situation of the so called Men’s World is only because of ’Sane’ ppl like you...
To make it right now, the world needs some insane and jerks like us...
Thanks for the compliments, in advance...
By your own argument, if the Men CHOOSE to end their own lives, then the women should not be blamed! Accepted...
In that case, WHY do you Blame Men when those half the number of Women CHOOSE to end their Own Lives?
Oh and btw, your figure of 3Lakhs is entirely baseless... Do you have any source for those figures, other than your day-dreams?
What bullshit?
Its the straight trees that are cut first. And jerks and criminals rule us because sane people like you chose to sit in a cozy A/C cabin and care a shit about what’s going on in the society?
Have you ever seen a dog committing suicide? NO
But human beings, the so called sane ones commit suicide. They end their lives as they cannot live in the world created by themselves.
And sane people like you want to talk only about women’s rights, and never about men’s rights because talking about women’s rights is politically correct.
And I appreciate your courage for accepting the fact that you people are happy putting your beliefs on myth and trying to give a tough time to reality.
However, I pity you more now because you are already devoid of any sanity.
Don’t worry... you are a ’real man’... keep swimming in the opposite direction... while us ’eunuchs’ will continue to live as God made us to live - i.e., to give respect to the fairer sex and spend our lives happily with wives and kids and mothers and sisters and concentrate on more important issues.
You all can carry on with your agenda of spreading hatred and get your asses kicked in the process.
All the best to you and to all ’real men’ like you, who are so terrified to be in harmony with the women that you show your back and start swimming in the ’wrong’ direction.
My prayers are alays with you.
You know, your comment can’t offend me... because I have great sympathy for gay people.
Don’t worry, while I enjoy my nights with beautiful girls... you all (Rohandee, Vraaag, Pisson and yourself) can indulge in gay orgies and count yourself the lucky ones. Now interpret the situation and see who is ’real man’ and who all are ’eunuchs’
Have a good day!!
P.S. I love the grit you all show while saving your mate’s ass, the way you responded to my comments to ROHANDEE and Vraag. Maybe that’s because you consider it as a trophy to bang for the lifetime.
Note: I have a friend in Bangalore, called Jaiyant. Get in touch with him whenever you make up your mind to say goodbye to the gay society and join the mainstream.
Note 2: You clearly seem to be suffering from ’heterophobia’. Click the Link 5 and see if you can do something to change your sick mind.
I never expected you to stop, that was a joke I played on your head to entertain the females here.
Keep blabbering!
Feminazis like you cannot make out the difference between facts and exaggeration. Nor can femiterrorists make out the need for balanced reporting which the media never does. We have only stories of men assaulting women. Crimes committed by women are pushed under the carpet as the business of women’s rights is at stake! Female victimhood is the product that is sold through such news stories. And lastly, men have paid with their lives to protect and provide women while women always enjoyed the comfort of the homes! Its slavery of men! And femiterrorists like you are adding insult to injury!
”And you blind Nuya, I am Virag and not RohanD, look before committing visible blunders”—————————-
The problem with femiterrorists is that they think there is only supporter of men’s rights. LOL
That shows that women can insult men. So we need to amend laws that discriminate men and make them gender neutral so that mem are also protected from insult and what not that women indulge in. Women can commit the same crimes as men. So protect men from such women. Amend the laws.
How many men were murdered - either by women directly or indirectly giving supari? BTW, suicide rate of men is always much much higher than women. Men face enormous stress when compared to women.
Every reply of this Nuya makes me laugh. LOL
Sometimes, they are so ridiculous that I wonder why I am wasting my time with a feminazi joker!
I understand your position and my sympathises for your background.....you don’t need to get so desperate and please women in today’s times! Get real and be a man!
”We’re are all mainstream men, who enjoy a nice night with your wife or sister too... Wanna test us?”—————————
This guy named Aneez Ibrahim (Dawood Ibrahim’s brother is also called Aneez, is living in the medieval world of chivalry and protection of women! Don’t hurt this poor medieval guy from a well-known background with such a statement. He is not able to digest men fighting for their rights and how can he digest the thought of we guys fuck*** about his wife and sisters?
We hear lot about crimes committed against women but that’s des not make the associations,organizations and institutions objects of mockery.How come talk about crimes against men is being ridiculed?
We all believe that changes are fast taking place in our society.The behavior of women has changed a lot and there are many criminal cases that show direct involvement of women in heinous crimes.Crimes committed by women belonging to affluent sections of society is now no big news.
Against this backdrop what’s wrong if people like Rohan D, Virag, Myth,Rajesh and etc. or,for that matter, organizations and associations defending the cause of men have come in existence? What’s so wrong in it? Isn’t a reality that women are going to any extent to frame men in wrong cases? It’s a harsh reality that’s bothering Courts a lot.Why such a hue and cry over the rights of men ?
Newton’s Third Law Of Motion states that ”to every action there is always opposed an equal reaction”.There was bound to be an uprising among the men community the way negative forces taking the help of borrowed ideology have wrecked the very tenets of Indian society.
Today you might ridicule them as they are lesser in number and also because they are moving against the current but it’s crystal clear that in near future it would be very difficult for women to live with so-called liberated values or distorted theories spread by the feminists.
Gandhi was thrown out of the train’s compartment and ridiculed in South Africa for championing the cause of suffering minority class there but what happened after that is known to all of us. In other words, let the whole world laugh at these few men for advocating the cause of men but I am sure it’s bound to end the drama taking place in the name of feminism.
It’s one thing to take note of the plight of women but it’s a different thing to create upheaval in society in name of honouring rights of women.
Anyway, I am really frustrated because a clash between opposite sexes also means end of intimacy between them.It’s virtually the death of exchange of intimate emotions between them.That’s bound to take place because individualism has left little scope for sweet togetherness.When you love rights over duties then be sure you are murdering possibilities of all beautiful relationship.
”Do you know the story of the boy who cried wolf? He got the reputation of being a liar.”———————-
Its you feminazis who are crying wolf in your aim at destroying gender harmony. I can provide you enough evidence to prove that men are the oppressed gender. The govt. records on suicides shows that too.
”Every time that you and the others say that women had it so good before the women’s movement, every time you say that women have never done any work, every time you say that females weren’t just a disposable commodity, every time you say that men were a free ATM paying women to do nothing.... the whole world knows that is a lie..... so how do you expect anyone to believe anything you say after that?”———————————
Don’t get so desperate and defeat your own cause. Don’t distort what Arvind has said. He never said that women didn’t have any issues or that women were enjoying. All he says, if I am right, is that you cannot oppress men and discriminate them in the garb of empowering women! You cannot treat men as free ATM machines. Women need to start paying the price of equality!
”Start with the realities of the situation...The reality is that for centuries Indians were conditioned to believe that females are just property to be used or disposed of.”——————
The other side of reality needs to be projected. Feminazis like you want to hide it so that women can dominate men. For centuries, men have protected and provided women at their own cost! 94% of all deaths are of men in the course of duty and wars. Women were given the privilege of sitting at home and enjoying the safety while men struggled to bring home food. MEN ARE STILL CONDITIONED TO BELIEVE THAT WOMEN NEED TO BE PROTECTED AT THEIR OWN COST. ITS HIGH TIME TO LIBERATE MEN FROM TRADITION.
”When you and others like you demean their struggle and advocate the return of their former subjugated state, it is just proof that men can still not be trusted. They will fight all the harder, and become all the more devious to keep from being returned to the shackles.”—————
The struggle is based on one-sided concepts, exaggerated and misandrist. Its not a fair struggle for fair and reasonable rights and duties. Its a struggle for unreasonable rights and with no duties. Its a struggle for destruction of men, families and society. Hatred of men is not just demeaning but should be condemned. The real subjugated gender are the men who had to pay with their lives to protect and provide women, while women enjoyed the comfort of the home, caring the children and doing lighter jobs. Strangely, it is the same ”untrust-worthy” men who are relied upon by women when they need protection. Its the same ”Untrust-worthy” men whose money is looted by women on the pretext of divorce. Shame! Shame!
”In the beginning, men were laughing at the women just like Gandhi was laughed at, but you know how that turned out.”————————
Men would eventually have the last laugh! I pity you!
The response given by you is indicative of the fact that you are just interested in twisting and distorting the replies of others to bring it at par with dirt residing in your brain. Why are you not interested in listening to the arguments of others with a conscious minds other than giving wrong colour to the replies of others ?
Do you think you are having some sort of monopoly over ”real facts” that makes you dismiss the findings of others with such impunity ?
I am not interested in offering arguments to quash the falsehood and baseless allegations made in your response. However, I do wish to kill your cherished view that you love to repeat whenever you meet me.
”The reality is that for centuries Indians were conditioned to believe that females are just property to be used or disposed of.
For women there was never any love, there was never any beautiful relationship there was never any intimate emotions there was only duty for thousands of years. How do you expect them to know what love is? How do you expect them to know what trust is? It was conditioned out of them.
They were conditioned to know that no one could be trusted to look out for their best interest. They learned to take what they could get out of any situation. They learned that they had to do what ever they could to survive.”
I know very well that it’s not going to kill your bonhomie with ignorance.I just saw an image posted by on some other post that highlighted a temple.In other words,I am taking you back in ancient times via excerpts that tell about the position of Indian society in ancient era.I will be more than happy if it allows you to be in league with some real truth other than your favourite ”so-called truths”.
Yes there was degradation in their stature in later times but then there were reforms too initiated by the men community .But that’s an altogether different story.
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The Ancient Indian Women
In ancient times Aryans were the main inhabitant of India. These people
were mainly Brahmins and they used to give the status of goddess to the women. At that time women enjoyed no less than status of Lakshmi (goddess of wealth) in the households. A famous Sanskrit shloka (form of Hindu verse) signifies the status of women in that era, ”Yatra naryastu pujyante, ramante tatra devta” meaning, “The
place where women are worshipped, god themselves inhabit that place”. The
women of ancient times had immense power this is evident from a South Indian legend that once a king accidentally killed the husband of a women and she had such powers that she burnt the whole kingdom to ashes. Women in that time had place even superior to men. They had representation in each arena from assemblies to religious rituals. In fact no religious ritual of Hindu Brahmins was supposed to be
complete without the presence of the women. An incident of Ramayana is a proof of this as when Lord Rama was performing Ashvamedha yajna his wife Sita was not with him and he had to use the gold idol of his wife to compensate for her absence. Ancient Indian women had say in each and every aspect related to theirlives. They had the right to choose their own life partners. The process of choosing
the life partner of own choice was known as Swayamvar in which grooms assembled at the house of bride and she used to choose the one whom she liked. Maharishi Ved Vyas’ Mahabharata and Mahrishi Valmiki’s Ramayana bear testimonial to this. In Ma-
habharata, Draupadi’s father arranged for her Swanyamvar and Arjuna (a Pandavamarry her.
Even the model women of Tretayuga, (second out of four ages of Hindu
mythology) Sita also had Swanyamva in which kings of different states participated and Lord Rama won her over by breaking the Shiv Dhanusha (Hindu God Shiva’s bow).Not only just princely women but the common women were also given the same rights. Women were so important that many of the major battles were fought for them. The fiercest battle of ancient India Mahabharata was fought for the honor
of Draupadi (wife of Pandavas, ruler of Indraprastha). The Kauravas (ruler of
Hastinapur) insulted her in the court and this led to the enmity between cousins and resulted in the most devastating battle of ancient India.
Another example of women power is evident from the cause of death of
most learned man of his time Ravana. He was the best scholar of his time and was the master of all the four Vedas of Hindu religion and had immense powers. Even gods were not able to defeat and kill him but a woman was able to bring his doom. Ravana
captured Sita and tried to mart her forcibly which led to his destruction.
Women were not just confined to domestic arena but they were also part of religious teachings. In ancient India woman like Gayatri, Maitreyi, Anusuya were re-nowned seers of their time this shows that women had the right to religious
teachings.They were not prohibited even from learning. They could learn whatever they wanted.
Vedas, the most adored Hindu scripture, give respectable position to women. Rig Veda allows share in property to the daughter who resides for ever withher parents (2-17-6). It gives right to girls to choose their life partners or husband (10-27-12). A hymn of Atharva Veda says:May women be united with handsome husbands. They should never be widows and never be in tears. May they be very prosperous and rich! May theywear pretty garments and beautiful ornaments and may they wish to take rebirth in human yoni (form) to maintain perpetuity of humanity.. A husband is supposed to request and praise her wife and get her voluntary consent if he wishes to have sexual union with her.
From ”The History Of Indian Women:Hinduism At Crossroads With Gender” by Babita And Sanjay Tewari
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”He never said that women didn’t have any issues or that women were enjoying. All he says, if I am right, is that you cannot oppress men and discriminate them in the garb of empowering women!”
..You got it right my friend.I just want to know is it wrong to talk about rights of men when day and all the source of information are harping about rights of women even in petty matters like smoking a cigarette? Why people representing the cause of men are seen in wrong light by females and their organizations ?
”you have 2 or 3 years worth of your so called proofs, the women have thousands of years worth, you have been trumped!”————————————-
The thousands of years is a feminist story. Its trumped up, exaggerated and one-sided. Men have woken up a little late but they will fix it soon!
”Like I said, you constantly lie about women, so everything else you ever say will be a lie too. Women have already paid the price for thousands of years, now they are collecting.”————————-
I cannot lie to you that women are above human weaknesses. I cannot lie to you that men protected and provided women laying down their lives while women enjoyed the comfort of their homes. I cannot lie that more than 1.3 lakh women have been arrested without investigation under IPC 498A alone in the last 5 years!
”Every misogynistic country in the world thought they could return women to slavery once the revolt started too. None have managed so far, what makes you think India will be any different?”—————————
Women were never slaves of men; on the contrary, men were protecting women at their own cost. Women and human species is alive today simply because of that; otherwise it would have been extinct. The crap that feminists have been spreading is about the ”Slavery” but men have always been the slaves of women!
”Why people representing the cause of men are seen in wrong light by females and their organizations ?”————————
Obviously, they don’t want truth to come out and want everybody to believe feminist crap of 1000s of years of discrimination of women. The truth is that men were as much if not more discriminated. Men were never sympathised and hence nobody is sensitive towards men’s issues.
Let me tell you that ancient India had a higher place for women (This was wrong and I don’t agree though). The women misused the powers and men were subjugated. So, later vedic period saw disempowerment of women. We are in a similar situation today. Women are over-empowered and men are yet to realise it. Once they do, you would see men disempowering women.
The Early vedic period gave excessive rights to women over men. Women misused it and men were subjugated. Society plunged into moral chaos. The codes of Manu came about at a time when society was morally chaotic. I agree with manusmriti when it says that women have the tendency to seduce men. I have experienced it myself. I have seen other men experiencing it too. With regard to the Gita, you have taken it out of context. Unless one understands the context and real meaning, it would be unfair to comment on it. All I can say is that these are spiritual texts and the comment is more about the spiritual body and not the actual body. DO NOT PULL OUT THREADS FROM THE SCRIPTURES OUT OF CONTEXT. UNLESS ONE READS AND UNDERSTANDS THE ENTIRE STUFF, THE BACKGROUND, IT WOULD BE UNFAIR TO COME TO ANY CONCLUSION.
”Does any of that sound like women were anything other than property to be used? Does any of that sound like love as you know it?”————————-
How can that imply that women were property of men? It simply means that men had the obligation to protect and provide women. It simply means that physical strength was more essential in those days to earn one’s bread and men alone could do that.
Did you ever read any of those Hindu texts? Like the Kamasutra, The Gita, the Veda?
....I would like to ask you have you read them? I am sure you have not read them.
As far as I am concerned I have read Gita and other Hindu scriptures quite well if not the other two that well.Not boasting.Okay.Just answering your question.
And here comes the request:Why a refined lady like you is so hell bent on turning herself into a laughing stock by ”selective quoting” of verses which I am sure you are not even quite aware of properly,forget about its true purport.
If you are good in certain stream,it does not automatically gives you the power to comment on each and every aspect with certainty.Why are you not aware of your limitations?
So please don’t quote in such a way.It does not show that you are aware of the realities.It only shows that how far you are from the truth.
The sweeping statements on basis of such selective study is quite a wrong way.Rohan is right when he says that unless”one reads and understands the entire stuff” in light of the ”background” one is bound to move away from the essence of the scriptures.
Just highlighting one example.
You have quoted a certain verse from Gita.Let me tell you that this verse does not exist in Gita at all.The Gita is a dialogue between Krishna and Arjuna.There is no verse in it addressed to Narada !
Even if I assume that the whole conversation belongs to Ashtavakra Samhita or Ashatvakara Gita occurring in a different parva(not in the one quoted by you) of Mahabharata then also this verse is not there as the whole conversation is between Janaka And Ashtavakra.
There is one more Gita -Udhhava Gita.But that appears in Srimad Bhagavatam -a Purana-and that’s dialogue between Krishna and Udhhava.
Why are you so cocksure about the validity of your arguments based on such superficial study.Even if I assume that one cannot read voluminous literature of other religion in detail, why are you not interested in hearing the better version of the same selective verses or for that matter the real essence of that scripture ?
That will prevent you from treating one’s version as the only ”proof” and will also prevent you from dismissing the views of others as rubbish.
”You can prove that some men are cowards and take the easy way out leaving others to clean up their messes? Men have had it too easy, if they had been the slaves then they would have toughened up and been able to endure more misery like women do.”——————————————-
If men were cowards, women wouldn’t have survived the onslaught of nature. Feminist scums like you want to portray a different history than what is the real truth. Even 100 years back, the comfort level was negligible when compared to today and people today cannot believe how life was then. Then, we can imagine how the situation was 2000 years ago was. Polygamy came about when there was a severe onslaught of nature and men were in great shortage. Islam also propagates polygamy because of this reason. Unfortunately, these rules weren’t changed with time. This, the feminists have twisted to suit their agenda of bashing up men. IN A WAY YES, MEN ARE COWARDS BEFORE WOMEN. THEY SHOULD HAVE MADE THE WOMEN FIGHT NATURE AND PROTECT AND PROVIDE MEN, WHILE THE MEN TENDED TO KIDS, COOKING, HOUSEHOLD WORK, WHICH IS COMPARITELY VERY LIGHT.
Yes, men have it very easy and that’s why 94% of all deaths in wars, calamities, work are of men and not women! Men have it too easy and hence they are driven to extreme situations that make them commit suicide, unable to tolerate the nagging of their women who think it is their right to torture men. Now who is the real slave?
”All religions are the same because the first thing men want to own and control is women, they want that before food, clothes, power or money. That has always been men’s number 1 aim to enslave women, they could beat them with their fists to control their bodies but they could never control their minds or their will to survive. As far as men were concerned, woman was the 1 animal they could not break, could not tame.”——————————————–
Straight from some feminist literature - it has no no substance and is plain crap. The holy books were written at a very different time when circumstances were unimaginably different - no technology, no cars, no taps to bring water, no electricity, no phones, very less population, infectious diseases around, and threat of nature was the real challenge to human species. Whatever was written then were the best in those circumstances! There was probably no other way for human survival except women being at home and men hunting and bringing food. Earliest humans had men being hunters and women gatherers. Now this has been exaggerated and misinterpreted by feminazis to suit their agendas. THE MEN ARE THE REAL FOOLS TO HAVE MADE THE WOMEN SIT AT HOME WHILE THEY DID THE MORE DIFFICULT JOB AT THE COST OF THEIR OWN LIVES! ITS NOW GIVEN THE FEMINAZIS AN OPPORTUNITY TO BASH UP MEN.
”The real reason women live longer than men is thousands of years of abuse left only the strongest ones to reach adulthood.”—————————–
Thats straight from feminist theory books on evolution. Don’t pollute this forum with such feminist crap. The real reasons why women live longer than men is because men are the disposable gender. 94% of deaths due to work, wars, rescue operations are of men and not women! That’s nothing to do with your theory. The Mumbai terror strikes saw 100% deaths of men and women were watching from the sidelines. What has that got to do with your so-called 1000s of years of abuse? Infact, its the other way. Men have been abused for 1000s of years and they have reached their limits. Infact, there is the theory of male genes becoming extinct as a result of this wearing out due to excessive work and tension. NOW WOMEN NEED TO PAYBACK MEN! START TAKING OUR TENSIONS AND STRESS.
”Ancient man hunted 2 or 3 times a week, then dicked around being waited on hand and foot the rest of the week.”————————————
The ancient man didn’t have AK-47 rifles nor did he have machines. You feminist would not be able to till one acre of dry field even in 6 months. And you thought hunting wild animals 2-3 times in a week without any machines was so easy. Obviously, the women were happy to serve the men who were physically exhausted!
”Women worked in homes and fields everyday, cooking, washing, cleaning, gathering wood, fetching water, tending to livestock and babies all day long. Read some history once-in-awhile! And not just Myths of things that never happened.”—————————
I am not going to read feminist history for sure. You are mixing up the hunter-nomad man with the settled farmer. If women were working in the field, that means, the men were also working in the same field. The men did more difficult jobs while the women were plucking the fruits and harvesting. DON’T MIX UP THE HUNTERMAN WITH THE SETTLED FARMER. The more difficult jobs have always been done by men. BTW, Cattle rearing is very difficult at times - washing cattle etc. Women would hardly do that.
”none not one mention of any protecting or providing done by men...it says very plainly that women had to look out for themselves because men would use them for revenge sex. It tells men to look for rich women and beautiful women only because they are just objects! Only male children count! Property to be given as gifts!!!!”——————————————————————
The ancient world followed religious values. If religions didn’t expect men to protect and provide women, the human species would have come to an end. Such was the danger from nature. In Hinduism, a woman is not expected to go anywhere alone. She is expected to go with a man or atleast a boy. What does that imply? It simply means that men are supposed to protect women! Similarly, whatever was written in the holy books were very scientific and relevant for those circumstances. To take out portions of that and show them as being discriminatory to women is unfair and irrational. Unless one reads the entire text and the context and circumstances, one cannot conclude that they discriminated women. Definately not as we have seen the present world where men are still following tradition and protecting and providing women.
”READ IT AGAIN!
And I dare you to find more than a footnote good about females in all those hundreds of thousands of pages because from what I have seen it was all vile and dehumanizing.”————–
You have seen only those that feminists want to. Go through the entire texts and the circumstances when they were made. Then you will know. BTW, I DARE YOU TO SHOW ME HOW ATHEISM AND FEMINISM HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS TO THE PROBLEMS OF HUMAN BEINGS. I DARE YOU TO SHOW ME HOW YOUR STUPID FEMINISM IS NOT AN ANTI-MALE INSTITUTION. Feminism cannot claim a moral high ground over Talibanism as they both have extreme ideologies.
”You knew when you started reading that I said I had not read all of the hundreds of thousands of pages, so why are even bringing it up?”————————————–
When you are saying that, how can you conclude? How can you base your assumptions on half-knowledge?
”The reason for pulling a few representative quotes is to show you where I got my information from. You keep saying that women are so revered yet I cannot find any evidence of what you claim.”————-
You have got the information from some feminist literature where such references are made. Those books are obviously designed to spread hatred and mislead society.
”It is not proof but it is evidence. I have read all of the texts to a few other religions and they are just as biased against women. More evidence that women everywhere have been mistreated throughout history and only because we were smaller and weaker and made easy prey.”——————————-
So you call it evidence eh? Evidence based on half-truth and half knowledge. If religions were against women, women would have been protecting and providing men for ages. Society would have collapsed long ago.
”If women had had the physical strength of men, there would have been harmony because women took complete care of themselves and their children for all the months and years that men were away fighting wars so no one was protecting them or providing for them for large amounts of time.”——————————————–
I WISH MEN WERE PHYSICALLY WEAKER THAN WOMEN! THAT WOULD MAKE MEN TAKE OVER LIGHTER ROLES AND WOMEN WOULD NOT GET THE UNDESERVING SYMPATHY THAT THEY ARE GETTING. Men would be women and they would be called the weaker sex, would be getting to control women the way women are controlling men and yet calling the world ”Male dominating society”.
Secondly, your statement is full of contradictions. You are saying that women were not being protected or provided when men were fighting wars. WHO WERE THE MEN FIGHTING WARS FOR? IS THAT NOT PROTECTION? And provision? There was enough for everybody those days unlike today when progressive methods of farming has diminished yield.
”Men knew women did not need them, that is why they made laws to keep them from getting any property.”————————————-
Women don’t need men? Try doing that. Don’t be kidding. No woman can live without a man. Man also needs woman. Your theory of feminism is nothing but hatred of men. No wonder, most of the feminists are lesbians.
”It was all about control and when women worked together and started asserting their will, men made up new religions to control them.”——————————
Control? Yes, thats why 94% of all deaths are of men and not women! So much for controlling women.
Women have started working primarily after the industrial revolution. Even today, they hardly work in labour oriented jobs. Some jobs such as mining, foot soldiering etc are unknown to women. Women have taken the advantage of technology and are claiming superiority and independence over men, forgetting the fact that for thousands of years, it is the men who sweated and toiled to bring home food, often sacrifising their lives. Women have always asserted their will on men and controlled men. Or else, we would have women protecting and providing men in ancient times.
”You knew when you started reading that I said I had not read all of the hundreds of thousands of pages, so why are even bringing it up?”
I raised it to show that such selective study serves no purpose other than creating wrong impressions.Well, a little knowledge is always dangerous.Interestingly,you dismiss the findings from same sources as ”myth” and ”false” but selective verses quoted by you from the same sources become ”evidence” for you.When you quote it’s ”evidence” but when others quote it’s ”false”.
I thing the greatest blunder committed by you is that you always look at the views from your premeditated brain.You have become a conditioned mind that cannot look beyond it’s limited understanding.The ideal way to gain a perfect understanding is to keep our minds always open to new thoughts and views.
As far as you are concerned, you are not ready to drop the baggage of previous thoughts from your mind.
I am too bothered about improving the situations of females but then I cannot ignore the wrong trend patters among the females.Modern females are just like a car moving fast without brakes in it.
I am too highly conscious of problems faced by the females and interested in seeing their rise but that does not mean I should ignore their distorted behaviour.Ironically,the wrong trend patterns are spreading fast in women and in fact replicating faster than AIDS virus in African subcontinent.
What the use of such progressive men and women if the institutions like marriage and family become a thing of past?
If awareness has led to conflicts, court cases and all sorts of other problems then one needs to think over the usefulness of progressive thoughts !!It appears that primitive class lived a better life than our so-called progressive guys and gals always in conflict with each other.
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1. Proposal for compensation of Rs. 2 Lakhs to rape victims.
Men not being allowed to rape for free is a castration?
How many women were murdered by men in that same time? over 300,000! The women did not choose to be murdered, those men CHOOSE to kill themselves.
How does he find time for all of that?
It is good for instablogs I guess, makes them look like they have more readership than they actually do.
Do you know the story of the boy who cried wolf? He got the reputation of being a liar.
Every time that you and the others say that women had it so good before the women’s movement, every time you say that women have never done any work, every time you say that females weren’t just a disposable commodity, every time you say that men were a free ATM paying women to do nothing.... the whole world knows that is a lie..... so how do you expect anyone to believe anything you say after that?
Start with the realities of the situation...
The reality is that for centuries Indians were conditioned to believe that females are just property to be used or disposed of.
For women there was never any love, there was never any beautiful relationship there was never any intimate emotions there was only duty for thousands of years. How do you expect them to know what love is? How do you expect them to know what trust is? It was conditioned out of them.
They were conditioned to know that no one could be trusted to look out for their best interest. They learned to take what they could get out of any situation. They learned that they had to do what ever they could to survive.
That is what they are doing now, using any means by hook or by crook to keep from being returned to slavery and degradation.
When you and others like you demean their struggle and advocate the return of their former subjugated state, it is just proof that men can still not be trusted. They will fight all the harder, and become all the more devious to keep from being returned to the shackles.
In the beginning, men were laughing at the women just like Gandhi was laughed at, but you know how that turned out.
Like I said, you constantly lie about women, so everything else you ever say will be a lie too. Women have already paid the price for thousands of years, now they are collecting.
Every misogynistic country in the world thought they could return women to slavery once the revolt started too. None have managed so far, what makes you think India will be any different?
There is a whole lot of talk of public women, courtesans, prostitutes etc. It instructs women how to get money out of men. It instructs men how to go about committing adultery with his neighbors wives.
....WHEN Kama is practised by men of the four castes according to the rules of the Holy Writ (i.e. by lawful marriage) with virgins of their own caste, it then becomes a means of acquiring lawful progeny and good fame, and it is not also opposed to the customs of the world. On the contrary the practice of Kama with women of the higher castes, and with those previously enjoyed by others, even though they be of the same caste, is prohibited. But the practice of Kama with women of the lower castes, with women excommunicated from their own caste, with public women, and with women twice married, 1 is neither enjoined nor prohibited. The object of practising Kama with such women is pleasure only.........
Nayikas, 2 therefore, are of three kinds, viz. maids, women twice married, and public women. Gonikaputra has expressed an opinion that there is a fourth kind of Nayika, viz. a woman who is resorted to on some special occasion even though she be previously married to another. These special occasions are when a man thinks thus:
This woman is self-willed, and has been previously enjoyed by many others besides myself. I may, therefore, safely resort to her as to a public woman though she belongs to a higher caste than mine, and, in so doing, I shall not be violating the ordinances of Dharma.
Or thus:
This is a twice-married woman and has been enjoyed by others before me; there is, therefore, no objection to my resorting to her.
Or thus:
This woman has gained the heart of her great and powerful husband, and exercises a mastery over him, who is a friend of my enemy; if, therefore, she becomes united with me she will cause her husband to abandon my enemy.
Or thus:
This woman will turn the mind of her husband, who is very powerful, in my favour, he being at present disaffected towards me, and intent on doing me some harm.
Or thus:
By making this woman my friend I shall gain the object of some friend of mine, or shall be able to effect the ruin of some enemy, or shall accomplish some other difficult purpose.
Or thus:
By being united with this woman, I shall kill her husband, and so obtain his vast riches which I covet.
Or thus:
The union of this woman with me is not attended with any danger, and will bring me wealth, of which, on account of my poverty and inability to support myself, I am very much in need. I shall therefore obtain her vast riches in this way without any difficulty.
Or thus:
This woman loves me ardently, and knows all my weak points; if therefore, I am unwilling to be united with her, she will make my faults public, and thus tarnish my character and reputation. Or she will bring some gross accusation against me, of which it may be hard to clear myself, and I shall be ruined. Or perhaps she will detach from me her husband who is powerful, and yet under her control, and will unite him to my enemy, or will herself join the latter.
Or thus:
The husband of this woman has violated the chastity of my wives, I shall therefore return that injury by seducing his wives.
Or thus:
By the help of this woman I shall kill an enemy of the king, who has taken shelter with her, and whom I am ordered by the king to destroy.
Or thus:
The woman whom I love is under the control of this woman. I shall, through the influence of the latter, be able to get at the former.
Or thus:
This woman will bring to me a maid, who possesses wealth and beauty, but who is hard to get at, and under the control of another.
Or lastly thus:
My enemy is a friend of this woman’s husband, I shall therefore cause her to join him, and will thus create an enmity between her husband and him.
For these and similar other reasons the wives of other men may be resorted to, but it must be distinctly understood that is only allowed for special reasons, and not for mere carnal desire.
WHEN a girl of the same caste, and a virgin, is married in accordance with the precepts of Holy Writ, the results of such a union are the acquisition of Dharma and Artha, offspring, affinity, increase of friends, and untarnished love. For this reason a man should fix his affections upon a girl who is of good family, whose parents are alive, and who is three years or more younger than himself. She should be born of a highly respectable family, possessed of wealth, well connected, and with many relations and friends. She should also be beautiful, of a good disposition, with lucky marks on her body, and with good hair, nails, teeth, ears, eyes and breasts, neither more nor less than they ought to be, and no one of them entirely wanting, and not troubled with a sickly body. The man should, of course, also possess these qualities himself. But at all events, says Ghotakamukha, a girl who has been already joined with others (i.e. no longer a maiden) should never be loved, for it would be reproachable to do such a thing.
from the laws of Manu....
213. It is the nature of women to seduce men in this (world); for that reason the wise are never unguarded in (the company of) females.
214. For women are able to lead astray in (this) world not only a fool, but even a learned man, and (to make) him a slave of desire and anger.
4. Having bathed, with the permission of his teacher, and performed according to the rule the Samavartana (the rite on returning home), a twice-born man shall marry a wife of equal caste who is endowed with auspicious (bodily) marks.
5. A damsel who is neither a Sapinda on the mother’s side, nor belongs to the same family on the father’s side, is recommended to twice-born men for wedlock and conjugal union.
6. In connecting himself with a wife, let him carefully avoid the ten following families, be they ever so great, or rich in kine, horses, sheep, grain, or (other) property,
7. (Viz.) one which neglects the sacred rites, one in which no male children (are born), one in which the Veda is not studied, one (the members of) which have thick hair on the body, those which are subject to hemorrhoids, phthisis, weakness of digestion, epilepsy, or white or black leprosy.
8. Let him not marry a maiden (with) reddish (hair), nor one who has a redundant member, nor one who is sickly, nor one either with no hair (on the body) or too much, nor one who is garrulous or has red (eyes),
9. Nor one named after a constellation, a tree, or a river, nor one bearing the name of a low caste, or of a mountain, nor one named after a bird, a snake, or a slave, nor one whose name inspires terror.
10. Let him wed a female free from bodily defects, who has an agreeable name, the (graceful) gait of a Hamsa or of an elephant, a moderate (quantity of) hair on the body and on the head, small teeth, and soft limbs.
11. But a prudent man should not marry (a maiden) who has no brother, nor one whose father is not known, through fear lest (in the former case she be made) an appointed daughter (and in the latter) lest (he should commit) sin.
12. For the first marriage of twice-born men (wives) of equal caste are recommended; but for those who through desire proceed (to marry again) the following females, (chosen) according to the (direct) order (of the castes), are most approved.
27. The gift of a daughter, after decking her (with costly garments) and honouring (her by presents of jewels), to a man learned in the Veda and of good conduct, whom (the father) himself invites, is called the Brahma rite.
28. The gift of a daughter who has been decked with ornaments, to a priest who duly officiates at a sacrifice, during the course of its performance, they call the Daiva rite.
29. When (the father) gives away his daughter according to the rule, after receiving from the bridegroom, for (the fulfilment of) the sacred law, a cow and a bull or two pairs, that is named the Arsha rite.
30. The gift of a daughter (by her father) after he has addressed (the couple) with the text, ’May both of you perform together your duties,’ and has shown honour (to the bridegroom), is called in the Smriti the Pragapatya rite.
The Gita....
There is nothing else that is more sinful than women. Verily, women are the root of all faults. That is certainly known to thee, O Narada! Women, even when possessed of husbands having fame and wealth, of handsome features and completely obedient to them, are prepared to disregard them if they get the opportunity.
The Mahabharata
Anusasana Parva, Section XX
Translated by sri Kisari Mohan Ganguli
Sage Ashtavakra said:
Women can never be their own mistresses. This is the opinion of the Creator himself, viz., that a woman never deserves to be independent. There is not a single woman in the three worlds that deserves to be regarded as the mistress of her own self. The father protects her while she is a maiden. The husband protects her while she is in youth. Sons protect her when she is aged. Women can never be independent as long as they live.
Does any of that sound like women were anything other than property to be used? Does any of that sound like love as you know it?
I have read through a good bit of the mythology and religion in the last few months. I haven’t seen any of the parts where women are discussed have anything nice to say about women. I am not saying that there is nothing nice... as you know it would take a lifetime to read it all, I am just saying that I haven’t been able to find anything good.
So far I have only found where it says over and over that women are evil and wicked and cannot be trusted. It instructs men to choose women for their money or their beauty, never for love.
Add that to the reports of the condition of females today and you get a clear picture of reality... it is nothing like that myth you have been laboring under.
12 How many a maid is pleasing to the suitor who fain would marry for her splendid riches?
If the girl be both good and fair of feature, she finds, herself, a friend among the people.
That is rather skimpy in the rights department, who decides if she is both good and fair? Does it only apply to rich women?
You can prove that some men are cowards and take the easy way out leaving others to clean up their messes? Men have had it too easy, if they had been the slaves then they would have toughened up and been able to endure more misery like women do.
All religions are the same because the first thing men want to own and control is women, they want that before food, clothes, power or money. That has always been men’s number 1 aim to enslave women, they could beat them with their fists to control their bodies but they could never control their minds or their will to survive. As far as men were concerned, woman was the 1 animal they could not break, could not tame.
The real reason women live longer than men is thousands of years of abuse left only the strongest ones to reach adulthood. Ancient man hunted 2 or 3 times a week, then dicked around being waited on hand and foot the rest of the week. Women worked in homes and fields everyday, cooking, washing, cleaning, gathering wood, fetching water, tending to livestock and babies all day long. Read some history once-in-awhile! And not just Myths of things that never happened.
There was NO>>>ZREO>>>ZIP>>>>ZILCH>>>> none not one mention of any protecting or providing done by men...it says very plainly that women had to look out for themselves because men would use them for revenge sex. It tells men to look for rich women and beautiful women only because they are just objects! Only male children count! Property to be given as gifts!!!!
READ IT AGAIN!
And I dare you to find more than a footnote good about females in all those hundreds of thousands of pages because from what I have seen it was all vile and dehumanizing.
You knew when you started reading that I said I had not read all of the hundreds of thousands of pages, so why are even bringing it up?
The reason for pulling a few representative quotes is to show you where I got my information from. You keep saying that women are so revered yet I cannot find any evidence of what you claim.
It is not proof but it is evidence. I have read all of the texts to a few other religions and they are just as biased against women. More evidence that women everywhere have been mistreated throughout history and only because we were smaller and weaker and made easy prey.
If women had had the physical strength of men, there would have been harmony because women took complete care of themselves and their children for all the months and years that men were away fighting wars so no one was protecting them or providing for them for large amounts of time. Men knew women did not need them, that is why they made laws to keep them from getting any property. It was all about control and when women worked together and started asserting their will, men made up new religions to control them.
I thought you wanted to know WHY the women are behaving as they are now and I was just trying to explain it to you.
Unless you understand why a thing is broke, you can never hope to fix it.
I know Rohand doesn’t care WHY he just wants to throw temper tantrums until he gets his way. I don’t why I bother to answer him except that I don’t want him to think I am ignoring him.
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Why do you call all these laws as gender arsenal? These are meant for protecting for women. Don't you think so?